I feel so lonely

Question

So guys I have a problem recently I moved cities and I am alone I have no friends even though I am going to a computer institute my shy nature does not allow me mingle with everyone (also sorry for bringing this up)so someone recommended me to dating sites I was desperate and after 3 months even that failed at this point I just want someone to talk to other than my parents also I suffer from anxiety which further complicates the issue and yes I did try dating apps to make friends just saying to emphasize my state of mind

deep_thinker · Answer

what's ur age?

alertchile0 · Answer

bro enhancing communication skills can help you out. Loosen up little bitand share things to people (strangers) may be . This might help you gain the confidence and you know that ,you don't have anything to loose like this

stressedspringboy · Answer

deep_thinker I am 23

stressedspringboy · Answer

alertchile I lack the confidence to even maintain eye contact while communicating with people I know

alertchile0 · Answer

Yes you need to try different things like this. And it can be anyone not really people you know or need to talk to, random person with random  talks

deep_thinker · Answer

What factors reduce your confidence?

stressedspringboy · Answer

Primarily academics

stressedspringboy · Answer

I had too much anxiety and would skip classes as such I am completing my bachelor's belatedly

alertchile0 · Answer

bro it's ok there are like 80% of the population wo give competitive exams and don't clear

stressedspringboy · Answer

alertchile I don't know it's like I have a pattern where I do want to talk to strangers but then there are times where I am too afraid to speak up

alertchile0 · Answer

yes this happens. you must be having confidence problem with people you know and who might talk about something you don't want to talk about ?

stressedspringboy · Answer

Extremely I don't want them to know about myself too much as they may not accept with my anxiety issues

stressedspringboy · Answer

btw I am on anxiety medication and am seeking help from a psychiatrist

alertchile0 · Answer

that's good if you are seeking help.

stressedspringboy · Answer

but I am tired of the cycle

stressedspringboy · Answer

I am not saying he does not help

stressedspringboy · Answer

He helps out immensly but there are these days where I am too afraid to do anything productive

stressedspringboy · Answer

lately these days have reduced but there are still occasions like today where my parents get on my nerves and my fear takes on me

alertchile0 · Answer

yes you must take steps to move. people can help but it's you who have to really do the actual work on yourself

alertchile0 · Answer

first step you need is just to want to move from your current position

alertchile0 · Answer

rest everything you will be able to handle

stressedspringboy · Answer

I know that only am responsible for my own well being but the problem is that my bachelor's exams are not conducted yet and I fear that colleges won't allow admission in September

alertchile0 · Answer

you yourself will be able to find different ways to enhance yourself

stressedspringboy · Answer

but the good thing is my exams will be conducted soon it's just that I can't wait for them to arrive

stressedspringboy · Answer

So yes and also I just miss meeting friends in person I do call my old friends from time to time

stressedspringboy · Answer

like wherever I go I go alone to the theatre or the park I just want to share those moments with someone

alertchile0 · Answer

then just talk to someone randomly there.  Even short interaction can change things

stressedspringboy · Answer

I am trying but now you understand my cycle

stressedspringboy · Answer

I am too afraid too speak and that further feeds into my loneliness

stressedspringboy · Answer

Hey also I get scared to talk to pretty people no matter their gender

stressedspringboy · Answer

I feel like their inferior

deep_thinker · Answer

what's ur gender

stressedspringboy · Answer

deep_thinker I am 23 old male hence why the failure in dating apps

alertchile0 · Answer

then enhance your personality. Pretty people only have face and it does not work everywhere...but a good personality can do wonders

deep_thinker · Answer

try to speak directly to ppl

stressedspringboy · Answer

deep_thinker that is what I am trying also

stressedspringboy · Answer

also alertchile I recently talked to strangers and from what I understand they did treat me well and are kind acquaintances

stressedspringboy · Answer

problem is I meet them very irregularly

stressedspringboy · Answer

Thing is I only could speak to them because we had common interests

Arunakumar · Answer

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