I got Cheated

Question

my husband cheated on me 😭Am in my post pregnancy period. He got an extremely close affair with a lady at his office. He accepted everything post me finding out the truth and now his apologies is not working out with me to get things right.     what can be done here am totally depressed and just can't come out of any thing happened between them😭

cockylizard3 · Answer

hey we can talk if u want

cockylizard3 · Answer

u may feel light from that

sincerecrackers7 · Answer

am comfortable with text

cockylizard3 · Answer

okhh

satesh · Answer

if he accepted it and promise to not go again with that lady then u have to move ahead and no need to think too much. better try to develop better n mature understanding btwn u too. I mean sure u will sort out things

cockylizard3 · Answer

I'm more comfortable with call but let's talk on text as u want

cockylizard3 · Answer

please share

sincerecrackers7 · Answer

am unable to trust his promises again. He did made a fake promises before. But when I figured out the truth with all possible facts he has no answer except sorry.  And it's the hardest truth to digest that my husband who loved me to the moon and back was diverted

sincerecrackers7 · Answer

mine was purely love marriage, for delivery I had come to my mom's place and just for about three months he has done this and luckily I was able to figure out on just 3 months. other wise it would have been a even more longer journey for them together.

satesh · Answer

I can understand ur feelings well. and u r right but u can again find that old love again by talking and little trust only. u don't have to trust fully and believe everything . but giving chance again is better option

sincerecrackers7 · Answer

feeling like getting apart as it is never possible to build trust

sincerecrackers7 · Answer

feeling like loosing my life or getting apart but both will affect my little one who is just 6 months old now😭 am worried

satesh · Answer

hmmm. good that u find out  . human nature is so tricky, I can't know what other person think or want in totality. everyone slips from what they r. now as u know, u can keep watch on him from little distance. I hope things will be good again

satesh · Answer

don't worry too much. it will affect u n ur child both. look life is so long and good to cherish different thngs and to love. now ur child is new blessing in ur life and I mean sure it will bring lot more good n happy moments in ur life. ultimately in my view life is all about good moments

humorousicecream1 · Answer

weak people create tough times and tough times create strong man,don't worry forgive him otherwise a champion is ready to be born,take care

androidgamer · Answer

sorry to hear

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

Hey, I'm so sorry for what you're going through. I understand that it must be hard for you to trust him again. You need to make a decision for yourself and your baby.. whether you want to build that trust again and work on your marriage or not. I know it's hard, but it's a choice you gotta make

sincerecrackers7 · Answer

just figuring out what is best? Either to walk out from this toxic relationship or to stay with him for the sake of my Lil kid

peacefuloatmeal7 · Answer

If the cheating was purely carnal then he might do it again. Ask yourself,  if you are ready to be in a marriage where husband can satisfy his carnal desires elsewhere? If yes stay in this marriage or else end it right away

help me please

how do I change for the better?

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