Hey, would you really want to date somebody who was so shallow? Treat this as a boon for yourself, you were saved from being with somebody so toxic.

Your personality counts the most girl, you just haven't been able to find the right guy. Also nobody is ugly, people might even different types and I bet you'll find somebody eho'll be head over heels for you just the way you are. Don't be upset over such a mean person.

if its to do with your looks then he will probably date someone for a bit until they start aging then leave them in ruins and go for someone younger, id say lucky escape

first, "girlfriends" arent materials and second you shouldnt be the one feeling small and insulted about it because you were not the one to hurt someone who liked you. Dont make him feel like that affected you even though it did .. if you did he would feel like he rules over your feelings, and you should never let that happen. You know you are goddamn beautiful ! and beauty is not just physical. A woman who can lift herself up and know that "there is so much in me that I cherish and want to protect and become better and brighter !" is what makes her attractive. And about that guy .. well there are tons of ignorant idiots like those and you know what ?! that's boring.