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I had a break up I understand it is normal but it becomes trauma to me I had overcome it but in some suitation the emotion of triggers which I had faced in past spoils my present moment and made me back to that overthinking zone if it happens or something else what can l do r

Vickey · Answer

Divert ur mind in different activities, just like study, expand time with family

aartikashyap26 · Answer

but this temporary

aartikashyap26 · Answer

please help me

Vickey · Answer

yeah but u need to engage in different activities, thats change ur mind,

Vickey · Answer

yeah sure, we are here to helps u

aartikashyap26 · Answer

i have thought if he will come gain in my life that thought troubles me a lot

Vickey · Answer

any chance are there to come back of that person in ur life again

aartikashyap26 · Answer

I don't want that person

Vickey · Answer

then leave them, and keep growing

aartikashyap26 · Answer

ok

Vickey · Answer

yeah and engage urself in other activities, make new friends

Vai · Answer

I understand what u r going through, u will.be out of it, it might take a little time but don't lose hope, Just do ur right and good work n Trust God .. Jay Maa Saptashrungi.. don't worry, God is with their kids

aartikashyap26 · Answer

I have thought that if he will come again in my life l have to face all these things again

Vai · Answer

it might even seem like u are out of hope, but don't lose it, things do change .. I am not.telling this just for some sake of telling, I mean it really, things turned out differently for me too just because of my Maa Saptashrungi .. don't worry dear

Vai · Answer

may I know what exactly happened between u

aartikashyap26 · Answer

I have fear that he will blackmail me

Vai · Answer

ohh regarding what?

aartikashyap26 · Answer

it happen in past and fear of happen again

aartikashyap26 · Answer

to come in relationship

Vai · Answer

may I know what exactly is the problem if u r comfortable

aartikashyap26 · Answer

ok

Vai · Answer

but in what way will he blackmail you, according to you n what for?

aartikashyap26 · Answer

i have fear that if he will come again in my life I will have to face all trauma

aartikashyap26 · Answer

because I have giving him a second chance

aartikashyap26 · Answer

to come in relationship

aartikashyap26 · Answer

this is only fear I am not sure it happen or not

Vai · Answer

at the end it's you who is going to accept his proposal if he ever comes back, see second chance depends on what was wrong between u both, u need not give second chance if u feel u r not wrong or u feel u r taken for granted, why u guys broke up btw if u are comfortable to share ..

Vai · Answer

what will be blackmail u about but as per u feel n u say

wolfalpha · Answer

Everything depends upon what was the reason to break up. You need to share that too to get genuine advice from people.

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