it's better she knows from you, not from someone else.

i know I have to be honest it's just a little hard cause they have kids and I know my sister is vindictive and will keep their kids from him I feel so stupid

oooh. ex-husband? it will hurt her so deeply, and be prepared for cutting ties for a while. but you have to show her with your actions that you can be trusted again

yeah her ex husband like see what happened is that he works in drafting and design and travels a lot for work which is why they divorced and over the week I took a few vacation days off from work to travel to Denver to see my parents and while I was in town I had also made plans to meet with friends well while I was just out doing some shopping I bumped into my sister's ex husband which surprised me cause I thought it was super weird that we both came to Denver which I didnt know well we said hi and hugged and we started talking over some drinks and I was actually having a great time with him well I invited him back this motel that I was staying at and like we talked but it got inappropriate now it wasnt intentions and he didnt pressure me at all but we started having sex

i see, but you don't have to explain or justify what happened to us actually. think hard about reaching out to your sister.

ooh ex husband it will hurt her so deeply and be prepared for cutting tied for awhile but you have to show her with your actions that you can be trusted again

porpoise, copying my comment?