even here our problems will not solve if it's genuine
lovesickporpoise2
I'm frustrated don't know what to do really want to talk someone individually not here like group chat I want one on one😵
ardentthrushe3
my issue is I want talk.to people but somehow just can't. The constant thought they won't like me, they judge me, I.will end up speaking something stupid....
lovesickporpoise2
I want to talk to u
lovesickporpoise2
do u?
lovesickporpoise2
if yes let's talk
Alishamendes
try speaking to yourself . say that u are proud of yourself , u r best , u are beautiful and u are safe
ardentthrushe3
sure. would love to... I am new to this app.. is there a we can chat privately?
Alishamendes
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don't avoid going out and push yourself to go in social events
Alishamendes
even I am new to this app I really don't have any idea bro
lovesickporpoise2
no not here but we can chat somewhere else like insta or telegram?
lovesickporpoise2
@ardentthrushe3 do u want to talk?
Alishamendes
even I have serious social anxiety issue that developed post covid and it was so serious that I used to sweat in an AC room also feel like I wanna pee even when I didn't have to ..and sometimes my stomach hurt and I really felt need to use restroom
lovesickporpoise2
if yeas then tell me
ardentthrushe3
Hey Alisha, yes positive self speaking yes have done yup it does help but in few situations... have push myself to go out but it ended me being.more avoiding public.
lovesickporpoise2
?
ardentthrushe3
ok insta will do fo me... let know your id will send you the request.
Alishamendes
this app helped me a lot.. I started taking deep breaths before entering social events and repeating in my thoughts that I can do it. ..it's not as hard as I think it is. I'm safe and I'll do just fine and I look beautiful.
Alishamendes
I forced myself to go on social events ... we feel social anxiety when we feel that we are inferior to others . and that other's gonna judge our actions
ardentthrushe3
have send you request @lovesick
lovesickporpoise2
texted you there
ardentthrushe3
hey @Alisha glad to hear this app helped n u r able to control.ur anxiety, hope someday same happens with me.... I have tried to social I dnt know somedays I am confident but some day even if a minute thing happens like someone speaks little rudely my confidence low... then back to square one avoiding public...
