I'm not satisfied with anything, I've learned so many different things, so I can't stick to any one place. I put everything off until tomorrow because of my laziness. I learn one thing and after a while I get tired of it and try to learn something else again, not trying to use what I learned.
why do u think u r not satisfied?
I am not satisfied with my current job. I want it to stop but I didn't do anything for it. I am not making any effort to find another job, with my skills I can work at home, i have all the facilities but i am not doing anything. I have a lot in mind to do but i can't do anything. I have no other obstacles except hesitation.
@abraham... it seems u have exactly asked some scientific advice and u r learning diff things daily. means u have knowledge and u know reality , u understand reality and u are not satisfied and bored. co they are not real or they are not scientically correct... Exactly i saw a person like me who was saying learned so many and not satisfied... i really want to talk to u
seems like a lot is going on in ur mind, break these down into simpler forms... starting with ur job... why are u not satisfied with it? what is missing? what kind of career growth do u see for urself?... think abt these keeping what kind of future u see for urself.
that is not hesitation but it could be diff
@unknownspecimen we can talk
@skylar I only need two days to complete my work and the rest of the time I just waste there, I am not allowed to do anything else with all that free time. The rules are somewhat strict there. All that time I can't do anything and I was thinking about many things and my mind was disturbed.
so are u satisfied with ur current job and want to utilize ur free time?
am not satisfied
I don't like the hierarchy there
u want to change it? where do u see urself working?
Apart from my work,am forced to do other people's work
I want to do my own business. But my hesitation is the obstacle
uhm... your obstacle is ur hesitation, right?
why are u hesitating tho? there must be some reason.
No particular reason, I'm just wasting a lot of time. Is laziness hereditary?
My father was a good artist. But because of his laziness, he denied many opportunities and liked to sit idle for a long time.
no bro laziness isn't, but people around us surely affect our mindset, motivation, goals and personality.
most of the time laziness comes with comfort tho , now whether u r being lazy, procrastinating or burned out... then u need to think about
@abraham may be that is not hesitation,. either u find it difficult or ur fear abt doing that or ur fear towards society or u need more info to start working on u or for u
I definitely say nobody will stay silent or lazy to do a thing,. unless he/she forced or stopped by surrounding ones
most of the people not able to do what they have dreamed, coz they might not had the basic necessities or until they have some responsibilities to be fulfilled.. so u have to find what r the things stopping u and then sort in our.. remember unless there is external obstacles, u definitely find a solution faster than u expected
Some days I feel a lot of energy and I start things but the enthusiasm quickly fades and then I can't finish it.
u got intensity but lacks consistency
it happens with me too, if u find something u really want to do, then plan it and fix it in slots of the day... has it always been like that?
It seems so, what should be done to change this
in what field u r working @abraham and what u want to do actually
unknownspecimen the real problem seems to be what she said. Can you give some scientific advice
there's no definite solution really, u need to find some real goal /motive which will give u motivation from within, and keep going consistently ... till u achieve it.
maintain a diary... write ur long term and short term goals and track it daily without fail.... trust me the guilt of wasting even a day Or not doing productive... will push u even more to do better..
yes consistency will give the result, but building it is most difficult one.
But u can do it the most easiest...
First u need to choose one thing not many or different.. and that too u have liked it co without ur satisfaction u can go beyond... Then start very very slowly and final it can be ur habit
but u have to be assured that no external factors disturbing u, coz these are main factors that will make u stop what u r doing... Coz same with me, i wanted to do so many but due to my external factors and responsibilities,. I had to sacrifice so many
I aspire to be a filmmaker, but I am a civil engineer and have expertise in financial accounting, apart from this I am a multimedia freelancer. I want a career in photography, I get the most satisfaction from photography, now I want to study law, I don't know why I feel this way.
skyalar i ll try
unknownspecimen I am trying a lot but I can't figure out what is the real problem
these are common we will get attracted to many fields coz we understand them easily.. not everyone some PPL understand easily and for small span of time they might want into it...
But it is recommended to have to this easiness in changing ur decision..
We know we want diff things every time, but stick to the one, only one that is ultimate to u... U are not able to decide what it is,. Analyse it find what is ultimate to u
I don't know which field to focus on. I am all confused. I can't do anything worrying about this
u confused coz u might know what that field has, how it will be in future, how it will lead u.. so u have to find all of this to choose one
@abraham i think we can chat somewhere else, i don't find this app smooth for longer conversation.. if u r ok, we can chat in telegram or instagram
why do u want to study law?
@unknownspecimen sure bro tg Itz_Meh_Aby
@Skylar We have a lot of laws but nobody seems to be using them. There will be many people who will take advantage of our ignorance and our illiteracy will deter us from even questioning anything. For example, if we buy a famous brand product and there is something compliant about it, even if we call the customer service, it is not resolved, it is unlikely, even if there are many legal possibilities, then if it is a very small amount, there is a tendency to refuse it without proceeding as compliant. I have made a few mistakes like this in my life, and since I dream big, I came to the conclusion that I should study law, thinking that if I make such mistakes, it will affect me negatively.
what branch will u opt? how long is the course? what opportunities are u going to get once u graduate? think abt things in a more practical way, getting swayed by things especially in career is very easy it goes in our mind.... may be i become that i will be able to make a difference... as weird it sounds u can't be everything u want to be... there will be some sacrifices here and there + some of these will be adopted as hobbies.
Not only that, I wanted to study law while studying at school, but I was not able to, and I want to stand for rape victims regardless of gender for their justice.
@Skylar I can understand what you are saying and of course I ll try this in life, thank you for giving me your valuable time.
@Unknownspecimen thanks to you too
any time, I learned a couple of things from this convo too
@abraham, your tg id is not showing for me, @devspecimen17 this is my tg id. ping me up if u have time.