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alertchile0why?
betrayedcamel8Cuz I think that even if my parents lied so many years they don't deserve to be yelled shit at. But I'm really angry and I'm loosing control yey- betrayedcamel8i can't believe I'm doing this on an app because no one can see that I don't feel good for months🤦🏻♀️☠️
- alertchile0it must be feeling like being cheated upon..what did they lie about?
- betrayedcamel8apparently my dad is not my biological dad
- alertchile0okay I understand your situation..and you found this out recently ?
- betrayedcamel8yes
- betrayedcamel8and I told my parents I understand and everything is fine but it's not
- alertchile0what are your feelings about this?
- alertchile0who initiated this conversation?
- betrayedcamel8I initiated the conversation cuz I saw a document and it wasn't saying I have a father so I asked and my mom started to cry
- alertchile0did you got your explanation that you expected?
- betrayedcamel8kinda but I still feel like the truth could've been told
- betrayedcamel8and there's my biological father and he doesn't want to see me
- alertchile0but now your father is the one you are living with...it doesn't matter who your biological father is
- alertchile01he is performing all the fathers duty and you must treat him as your father
- betrayedcamel8i am treating him like the best father in the world I couldn't ask for a better one
- betrayedcamel8but recently I am mad at my mom for everything she says or the way she laughs with her friends but maybe that's just cuz she is the principal lier
- betrayedcamel8i met someone after that shit and I was really happy with that person but I was scared for no reason and I ended everything and now he doesn't want my friendship anymore and that made me very every single night
- alertchile0so why your mom wanted to keep it to herself?
- betrayedcamel8i eat once a day and that's it, I fainted two days ago and I told my mom a year ago that I've been hurting myself and I don't want this life and I'm mad at everything crying
- betrayedcamel8she treated me like a princess for 4 days and he was talking about going to therapy but now that episode is forgotten but I'm still that girl
- alertchile0don't do this to yourself
- betrayedcamel8my mom thought she would ruin the illusion of this happy family by telling the truth and the only thing she ruined was me
- alertchile0are you mad at your mom after this incident or from even before ?
- betrayedcamel8I have fucking scars on my hand and she never asked about those so I could lie, she never cared and the only person who did is gone
- betrayedcamel8i wasn't mad at my mom before this
- betrayedcamel8my friends are going through their own shit and I don't wanna put this on them too
- betrayedcamel8i tried to tell my mom but nothing changed and I am pretty alone
- alertchile0then she is the same person, you are getting mad just because she hid this truth and now everything she does is irritating you
- betrayedcamel8exactly
- alertchile0maybe it's because you are seeing her with different perspective
- alertchile0forgive her and get back to normal..I know I must be hard but try to put yourself in her shoe, maybe you will understand
- betrayedcamel8you're right but I still can't get this feeling of emptiness
- betrayedcamel8I forgave her from the first second
- betrayedcamel8i have this episodes since I was 12
- alertchile0so this feeling of emptiness is not related to this incident, right?
- betrayedcamel8i was happy for a while then I started cutting myself and even today I am asking myself if I do it for attention or to get the pain stop for a moment
- betrayedcamel8not really but this incident accentuated this shit
- alertchile0how old are you now?
- betrayedcamel8at 14 I was taking random pills just so I can almost throw up after and feel the pills
- betrayedcamel816
- betrayedcamel8i know I am dramatic specially at this age that's why I don't tell anyone
- betrayedcamel8i don't know what's wrong with me if I do this for the attention I'll never get or it's my brain not fucking working
- alertchile0I think you should take help from psychologist for this matter
- betrayedcamel8my mom told me it's a good idea but ofc she never actually took me to one
- alertchile0no it's not your fault
- betrayedcamel8and I feel like that person will try to say everything I want to hear and that's it
- alertchile0then you should book an appointment if you can
- alertchile0no they know their job, they will do it right
- alertchile0if your mom don't have time..ask your dad to take you to psychologist
- betrayedcamel8idkkk
- alertchile0and you are not dramatic..these are your feelings and they are real, don't be too harsh on yourself. Whatever happened is not your fault. It happened to you and it's ok
- betrayedcamel8thank you
- betrayedcamel8But i don't think I can go to my mom and be like "hey let's go to the psychologist
- alertchile0ok try joining circles here...people say they are good, maybe these sessions can be helpful
- betrayedcamel8idk but thanks
- betrayedcamel8for everything
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