I'm tired I'm feel lost

Question

I feel I'm failing, I am fighting hard to work on me and get to where I need to be, but its hard and I'm afraid of not being able to get there and stay there some days are better then others but the steuggle NEVER ends and I dont want to lose some one because of it.

arjun0813 · Answer

i know what you feel but you should know that the path of self improvement is not easy. It is harsh, dreadful, scary and you might lose people in it but this path only removes those people from your life who are acting as an obstacle in your growth...The reward of walking on this path is much more better than what you have currently...You need to strive hard and maybe lose some people but it's for your own benefit because only after that you'll attract those people which have tthe same mentality and mindset as you

brainyMeerkat1 · Answer

Don't have fear to loose someone. if a person loves you he will accept you as your are.

ashamed · Answer

@brainyMeerkat1 he does thats the thing he is the only one I have really opened up to about what happened. He is still there but he wants to male sure I'm ok and work on me which I have been doing but I feel lile Km not doing well

ashamed · Answer

@wakefulcow1 I want a relationship as does he but right now jobs and life dont allow it but he is here for me he sees a relationship and has told me numerous times he isnt going anywhere

ashamed · Answer

@arjun0813 I do get rhat6, I overthink alot of tjings I shouldnt and he has to reassure me that I'm still doin well, he has told me numerous times he isnt going anywhere, and he wants to see this through necause he knows it will help

Recovering_babe · Answer

it's okay to feel tired, it's okay to feel lost, that doesn't mean you're failing. things are results are just taking time.. and you're struggling and thats okay.. the fear that you're facing is also okay.. all you have to do is fight through it.

ashamed · Answer

@Recovering_babe it's hard I'm truing my darnest

Frustrating

help me please

how do I change for the better?

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