I THINK I’M A MESS RIGHT NOW

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I THINK I’M A MESS RIGHT NOW

I said I would never loose My virginity until I find the right person (of course I knew what was right for me) I met him he was my perfect match we dated for 1 and half year we were in love of course and I decided to give it my all despite knowing that ethnic and religious differences can be a barrier for us, but we were ready for it, had sex the first night and it was an experience I would never forget cos I never allowed anyone to defile or mess up with me, I was a strict girl who would never give chance to anyone to mess up with them. we had a fight and yeah I pushed him too far now he's saying a whole lot to my face, like I'm a slot, a prostitute, and a big flirt. words don't get to me but this one is tearing me down, I feel like I can only be fine by suicide since I can't have my virginity back.

painedlovelyn

10 Answers
alertchile0
bro virginity is not that big issue to give up on life...and that person is surely is not the one you want to be with your whole life, I mean he is abusing you just because you guys had a fight...it's better to say bye bye to him and never cross ways with him...he is immature and you just need to get yourself together and see through it. Their is lot more in life.
iiamalice_15
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Just because you lost your virginity doesn't mean you should give up on life. You have so much to live for and I'm sure you have goals in life so focus on your goals and yourself. Try to heal from that and focus on you. You'll meet the right person, just be patient.
painedlovelyn
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I don't think he was abusive but I. just damned right now
sorewasp2
Hum
sorewasp2
What caused your fight in the first place for him to be this angry ?
satesh
make him feel ur value . secondly virginity is nothing but fake concept of purity. it's ur heart which define u. so don't worry about it . be strong. break all relationship with him and remember it as lesson
sorewasp2
satesh . I think she gotta sit and talk with him to understand what lead to all that . Men mostly react that way when them feel cheated by their loved one. Relationships have ups and downs, and I think this is the down. u try to apologize for pushing him too far and I’m sure he will too
painedlovelyn
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thanks guys for your supports and advice
sorewasp2
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So how is it going between you guys so far?
sorewasp2
Do your best to make him understand how much you love him and never cheat on him. your relationship will go a long way if you stay honest. I jus wanted to update you that my boyfriend and I were just recently married, we’ve been dating for 5 years and he was the first and only man to ever sleep with me, I feel so proud. And he knows I will never cheat on him

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