this guy lets call him, ginger, we dated and broke up, i initiated the break up in the most polite way i could, i know its gonna hurt but i wanted to be sincere to him, i lost feelings and i didn't wanna be in a relationship anymore. he texted me again saying lets give it a try again. i dont want to. im tired. i used always be paranoid, anxious and stressed when i was in relationship. idk what to do anymore.