Immaturity of husband

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Immaturity of husband

hi ..I am tired of my husband because he is very immature and aggressive.He always doubts on me ,become angry on small things,never accompany me in social gathering ,talks senselessly, egoistic nature etc.He is very much immature and I can't divorce him as previously also my engagement has been broken twice and this marriage is third time commitment.I am fed up of 3 failed relationships.please help me as to what can I do to make my husband mature ?will counseling work ?

ayu07

9 Answers
rkaka
Have you tried talking to your husband about how you feel?
ayu07
yes nd now he is demanding divorce for silly reason
Samairah
2
It must be tough for you but then you have to talk to him and find a solution. Have you tried involving family members?
ayu07
I cannot involve family members as his family is also immature and blame me and my parents always😭
rkaka
Try to talk to him about how you both can make this work. Discuss about your expectations, try to understand his point of view also.
ayu07
rkaka I understand him but he is so immature that he is not talking to me since 10 days because of ego .
spiritedEland5
4
Counseling might work but it might be difficult for you to convince him to go. I understand and feel absolutely sorry about the pressure that society puts on the females. Coming to your problem, You can change someone's behaviour but it requires alot of patience, I can guide you with this but at worst case scenario you shouldn't be afraid of leaving him even if it was your 10th marriage. you should really priotise your happiness over what others might think
excitedTomatoe7
4
yes, couple therapy can be of great help. If you cannot involve family, then you need to take this upon yourself. Talk to him. Get counselling and see if anything changes. Do you know any of his friends who might talk some sense into him and help you? All I can say is, if you both love each other, you'll find a way. You'll work things out. Don't give up 😊
ayu07
excitedTomatoe7 tq so much