insecure about relationship

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I am just 14,i know quite young for a realtionship but my crush proposed me and i accepted the proposal we kept talking to each other for about 2 months and his mother found out about us.She warned him to not to talk to me.He messaged me and told me that we can't talk anymore he promised me that he would wait until we grow up and then talk to our families.I agreed and promised him i would wait too.But yesterday after missing him alot(we didn't talk to each other since last 3 days)i messaged him...and he spoke to me rudely.Should i wait or move on?I am totally depressed. Please advise

panickyCow4

6 Answers
thisiswater
Sometimes giving the need he need would be the best thing you can do. You never know how situation might change. He would be in a more independent space in the future. If you can wait it out for some time until he gives a green sign.
panickyCow4
Thisiswater but what about yesterday.he talked to me rudely.Should i still give hima chance?(by rudely,i mean that he just asked me what happened?,why did you message,but actually we promised each other we wouldn't message again..
Zoya Ahmad
Hey! Thanks for reaching out. I am sure, you must be feeling bad about it. I think you both should focus on your career, studies amd move ahead in life. See after few years, what life has in account for you, don’t attach your hope with it.
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panickyCow4
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Thank you so much Zoya mam.
thisiswater
You never know what his situation at home and why he replied the way he did. I know it can be tough, but focusing on studies can be a good distraction until the situation is more favorable.
panickyCow4
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Thisiswater thanks alot!!

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