is love?

Question

is love always supposed to feel like butterflies and excitement? what if it doesn't? what does that mean?

brainyMeerkat1 · Answer

only in starting it feels like that. when you know each other properly you don't feel the same.....    But if you truly love that someone...  the person can swing your mood.

chickitten6 · Answer

what if it never feels like that?

brainyMeerkat1 · Answer

This is my personal experience.....   If you are Ill... the person has power to heal you....... That person can give you energy... ( It happens with me  )

brainyMeerkat1 · Answer

I don't know what are you feeling??? First share me what does you feel?

holymolyguacamoly · Answer

to me it butterflies and all in the very beginning of a relationship or an immature relationship ... but the older mature once are like just loveing from the inside a more calm one where the person is not like an amusement park but just like a cozy home .

pridefulicecream8 · Answer

not  everytime..but if it never feels butterflies then  something might not be right .

chickitten6 · Answer

there is this person that I'm very interested in, he is fun and interesting and I absolutely love spending time with him. infact he is one of the few people I actually love talking too because he is so honest and original and we both were kinda drawn to each other but it's not something we have ever experienced before.

chickitten6 · Answer

like I mentioned it's not exactly butterflies or excitement but more relaxed and mature, we talk about whatever is bothering us and try to solve it and it's great don't get me wrong but love to me so far has always been the excitement and this one isn't like that and recently I have been overthinking alot of what's actually happening.  I know that I love him but is this love the love I want? do I actually love him? and even though sometimes I love that due to the lack of the excitement we are much more calmer and mature I still miss that rush sometimes..I don't know what to do I'm extremely confused

brainyMeerkat1 · Answer

I think you are expecting much.   Make a list  the things you want in your partner and discuss with him...   See if he is really making efforts to keep you happy.   And   try to understand him....      ( And in caseif you wanna see if you actually love him or not....     Stop talking to him for few days if it is easy for you to survive without him so he doesn't really matters to you... and if he didn't make any special move to talk to you, he doesn't bother about you)

help me please

how do I change for the better?

I love him so much and just feel empty without him

my brother is soooo hot 😍