Hey! Thanks for reaching out. I can understand you must be feeling on the edge all the time. Initially every relationship has a spark because it’s new and you are trying to know each other, hence both the parties invest efforts as well, but with time when we are assured that this person is now going to stay we stop putting in efforts or we are so used to the constant attention that we get we often think that this is it, this person isn’t doing anything new or you can say you become used to it. And it’s okay if both of you don’t have any problems with it. But if any one person feels that the relationship is losing it’s spark then it’s the time wherein you both have to invest conscious efforts and do things to make each other feel special and loved. If your partner isn’t doing so, ask him politely if he has any issue? Communicate with each other, however you feel you both should be able to tell each other. Long distance relationships can be a little difficult, try to trust him and talk to him about your insecurities tell him that you trust him and you don’t want to be hurt. Set a time where you both will talk. Assure him that you’re also hu going to stay honest. Give him space, give yourself time. Don’t be paranoid about each other. Focus on your personal growth as well. And be accepting of the situation. Express how you feel.

Thank you for the advice. I'm feeling really relaxed right now. Thanks a ton for hearing my problem.

Anytime