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does love exist or its just for physical needs..at an early age u had child abuse but then later when explained to my boyfriend he said he loves me and all we had left was just physical.and then the next guy whom i dated also wanted sex.do real connection emotions exist before ya its only sex which could connect 2 people.why the heck then our parents survived a relationship was it just commitment ya commitment and love involved.however is this generation whole corrupt...me being a doctor and yet all i could find is a person who wants to have sex and just sex ..another person i was lucky enough to find he wants to wait for sex it was all roses...however he wouldnt talk much being an introvert how do i convey what i feel.will it be wrong to bring my problems to discussion..how exactly do introverts communicate..am i supposed to be waiting patiently..i am.falling for him he also said that he does love me but i am a chit chatter and dont know if he really does love me and would want me

want2liv · Answer

yes, love does exist nd intimacy is also a part of it bt if u r comfortable with it just talk about it. if that one really loves u will surely understand u nd will give the to heal try to talk nd explain what u fear about nd why u r not ready for it. also u have to b urself in a relationship. u have to adjust accordingly bt don't change urself or do anything that u r not comfortable with. it will hurt u only

insecurecockatoo3 · Answer

but he is an introvert i dont even know what he wants and if he is sure to be with me or maybe i have a problem prevailing from pasts where i think i am going to end alone hence ask for reassurances

want2liv · Answer

u both should try to talk. u should talk first about the things that r hindering ur life. even if he doesn't say something I'm sure he'll understand what all u r going through nd if he understands u can tell by watching to his actions only

insecurecockatoo3 · Answer

what kind of actions would that be,he already commited that he wants me to be his wife and that he wont touch me till everything is confirmed but 1st time when he kissed i didnt feel a thing.

want2liv · Answer

things like he don't force u to b physical with him. he will try to understand that it's a kind of fear that is stopping u from being comfortable with it. nd after suffering from such kind of abuse I'm sure that u r afraid even from a slight physical contact bt believe it all needs time nd understanding. u should also give urself some time to let urself adjust nd believe on him. surely tym will heal ur scars soon.

insecurecockatoo3 · Answer

thanks a lot

want2liv · Answer

my pleasure dear. wish u luck😊

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