Well he needs to understand that your going through changes in life mentally and physically. I believe it will happen for you just give yourself some time and don’t rush into it. Not everyone reacts the same way post pregnancy

Well you should give yourself time. Your fickle minded ness might be cause you don’t follow things you love

The birth of a baby can trigger a jumble of powerful emotions, from excitement and joy to fear and anxiety. Most new moms experience postpartum "baby blues" after childbirth, which commonly include mood swings, crying spells, anxiety and difficulty sleeping. And this happens since your whole life pattern changes completely and I guess all your time and efforts must be going towards nurturing and taking care of your baby so it is natural to feel unmotivated. So just be patient and don't put so much pressure on yourself, things will get normal ,just live in the flow till then. I am sure one day you will feel like your old motivated self again. 😊

@spreadingjoy thanks for your kind words. I feel a lot better 🙂