is he unemployed by choice or just not able to find a job? how are you guys surviving??
I am sorry to hear this. Being a father of two I can't imagine myself sitting and doing nothing. First thing is I'd say you take the steering wheel and start something to earn. I know it's hard but you gotta do that. On other hand I am sure you did but try to understand why you husband is acting like this? Is something from your end bothering him?
you need to find career opportunity asap, to resolve issues.