lonely.

Question

its j that i feel all alone in this billions of ppl. there is no one there to talk to me. no one asks me how my day was.

nauseatedperson · Answer

well, how was your day? ( if you are comfortable sharing that)

curiousdinosaur6 · Answer

it wasnt too good.:)

nauseatedperson · Answer

oh.. sorry. what happened?

curiousdinosaur6 · Answer

you are too kind thanks <3

curiousdinosaur6 · Answer

nthg much happened. i j feel like i miss my precious moments j because i dnt hve frnds

therealme · Answer

did you broke up?

curiousdinosaur6 · Answer

nope i didnt. but my realtionship doesnt work honestly. it feels one sided.

nauseatedperson · Answer

I understand. you can try to make new friends through different opportunities ( although if you are an introvert they can be a bit less) or maybe you can try to be alone and not lonely?

therealme · Answer

so dnt be giver all the time...be taker also sometime...be selfish sometimes ...just for your mental happiness

curiousdinosaur6 · Answer

i try my best. though when i see other ppl with their frnds and partners. i feel like a lonerr.

nauseatedperson · Answer

well, yeah but that isn't a bad thing. Yeah you may not like it I get that. Okay are you in college or school?

curiousdinosaur6 · Answer

ik i am trying to think abt myself too. but i aint sure that he really likes me or he is j faking it. and iif he really likes me then why isnt he puttin efforts. or maybe he is busy? thoughts fuckme up ;)

curiousdinosaur6 · Answer

college:) but recently its vaccation

nauseatedperson · Answer

hmm then maybe after this vacation you can join a society you like?

curiousdinosaur6 · Answer

i hve gained self doubt and i am a bit too shy :))

therealme · Answer

first make him comfortable with you...don't let him know that you will judge his feelings...be casual..be normal...once he is also sure to confess his feelings..he will ...just enjoy his company

curiousdinosaur6 · Answer

he proposed me man.:) we are in a relationship. but now he pretends as if we are j some casual. he ignores and doesn't intiate even too meet once

nauseatedperson · Answer

Oo just like me then :) well is there anyone like a acquaintance of some sort. you can text them and maybe start a conversation from there

curiousdinosaur6 · Answer

yes i have frnds like 1-2. but d point is i dnt feel like i can count on them during hardships or smthg

nauseatedperson · Answer

well, too much similarities. um I got a therapist to talk to and I can say pretty much everything to her. so you can try that? and maybe they would give you more ideas on how to build friendship according to your circumstances

curiousdinosaur6 · Answer

@nauseatedperson thanks for being there. ✨

nauseatedperson · Answer

anytime:)

curiousdinosaur6 · Answer

how are you?

nauseatedperson · Answer

I don't actually know that. Too much is going on so I am not focusing on that.

curiousdinosaur6 · Answer

speaking your heart out can make you feel better. trust me

nauseatedperson · Answer

hmmm yeah. well the thing is maybe I am pretending all this anxiety and depression and being a weird guy because I don't want to live my pathetic life and maybe get the realisation that I am an lazy a-hole.

obsessedunicorn8 · Answer

how ur day was ...guy

Frustrating

help me please

how do I change for the better?