low self esteem and trauma of father's death

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I recently lost my father.. He was actually suffering liver cirrhosis. When he was alive he gave us lot of troubles... I guess u get it.. How it would be like to survive with a drunkard.. Our situations were of that kind.. Now after losing him i am actually longing for his presence internally.. It is like i want someone to sympathize nd show concern.. But the things r on opposite side.. With tis thing i have pblm of being dusky.. My cousins r actually fairer ..according to social criterias ,we have for looking beautiful ..doesnt know tis is the issue.. But i feel silly for having such small issues and making a drama of being in anxiety and depression

curiousClam1

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Aayushia51
1
No it's not a small thing and what your going through is huge. Also, don't let this racial discrimination affect you as your beautiful in your own way
Zoya Ahmad
2
Hey! Thanks for reaching out. I can understand how difficult it must be for you. Irrespective of the kind of relationship you shared with your father but his significance in your life can never be replaced, thus the longing is very organic. Give yourself some time to process and accept the loss. The color of your skin isn't something that defines you, I know how appreciated a fair skin tone is in the society that we live in but do we really want to comply to such unrealistic standards of beauty? You are beautiful in your own way. Your kindness makes you beautiful, your achievements makes you courageous and your journey makes you distinct.
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curiousClam1
So good that someone just feels what is really inside of meee and accepting the pain as it is.. Thnx
Zoya Ahmad
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We are always here to extend the hand of support, you are not alone.
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rainystorm14
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You can never hate your parents, so there is no wrong in missing him. And if it helps, I am dusky too but as long as you love yourself and feel confident about it, there is nothing others can do to make you feel other way. And no problem is small or big. If it bothers you, it bothers you!!!

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