Low self esteem due to bullying

Question

I don't know what it's about me, but I've been bullied my whole life. I had to bear it all through my school life and now I've to go through it in college too. My peers makes fun of me in the group chats and I only have one friend who I'm not that close to. I've started despising myself for being so weak. I'm not capable of standing up for myself or having the sort of personality that people I admire. My life is always going to be a joke to everybody around.

samy · Answer

Hey, don't feel so disheartened. It's not your fault that other people lack a conscience. What you do have a control over, is resisting their mistreatment. Be firm and collected in your words and tell them to back off. If it makes you too nervous then frame what you're going to say beforehand. It'll make you feel more confident about yourself surely.

hashbrown · Answer

The world is a tough place my friend, and the only way to get out of this to show everyone that you're not weak. Do not laugh when the joke's on you or bear mistreatment. Also try to improve yourself everyday, it will always boost your self-esteem.

bubblebee11 · Answer

I think take one step at a time. it is not possible that you shut their mouth once and they will be quiet forever. No! The fact that you have realised that it is wrong is itself a step you have already achieved and secondly the fact that you are willing to stand up against it shows that you have the potential but you just need to put it into work

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