Hey, don't say that! Life is a gift. Really, it is. Well, at least that's what my Mom says... Anyways, even though we might not have found our place in life yet, we don't need to wish that upon ourselves. If you don't mind me asking, what happened? Why do you feel this way?
chicGatorade1
i am stuck in this relationship fr 2 years . m i am not able to get out of it . . idk what to do i love the guy but i constantly feel i deserve better and shouldnt be treated the way he treats me
chicGatorade1
he cares for me too a lot and constantly begs not to break the relation
Stitch_22
Does he physically or verbally abuse you?
chicGatorade1
he verbally has abused me many times during fightss . . physically he constantly fights with me to have sex with him . . but after fights when i break up he begs not to break up and that i mean everything to him . . i am just so confused . .
Stitch_22
OMG. I AM SO SORRY!!! I'm not so sure if he's safe for you. And you deserve so much better.
Stitch_22
You and nobody should deal with this.
Stitch_22
May I say something without making you feel sad?
chicGatorade1
but when i break up he really begss hard criess tells me he loves more than anything . . thats how our 2 yrs relationship has survived till the tym
chicGatorade1
i have tried to break up withhim a million tymes
chicGatorade1
yes please say
Stitch_22
I see. I think he is just... just faking it. I think he is using you. You don't have to listen to me, but letting him go now before matters get worse is the best idea. No matter how hard he pleas. He is just going to get worse.
Stitch_22
He might start drugging you up and doing the dirty...
chicGatorade1
can he be faking for 2 yearsss?? . . can people really do thatt
Stitch_22
They can. They earn your trust, then rip your heart from your body. They can do whatever they want when they become in full control. I'm sorry that I said that by the way. I just want you to be okay.
chicGatorade1
all my frndss also things he isnt right for me . . i have never been through a break up and dont know how to handle it
chicGatorade1
can u please guide me😔
Stitch_22
Me neither. But you'll be okay. You are all you need. At first, you'll be sad, and wish you never broke up. But after a while, you will be grateful. You will soon realize that things could've gotten so much worse if you didn't end it now. And I'm sure your friends will support you. They will be there to keep your spirits high.
Stitch_22
You also have to allow yourself to grieve. It is a normal emotion and will help you to feel better in the long run. And focus on being happy all on your own.
Stitch_22
Try doing some things that comfort you. And remember, I'm here for you! We all are.
chicGatorade1
i am just not able to decide what i want . . i admit my lyf is hell but he also did many great things fr mee . . he teaches me many a tymes . . he got on one knee and proposedd . . he tried to make himself better for me . . he gave me the key of his locker . . but i still dont love him that much . . he fyts with me and makes me miserable every 5th to 6th day . . he plays the blame game overthinks everything and hurts himself and me
chicGatorade1
i am so confused even idk what i want
chicGatorade1
i am just better than him at everything and wish got a better partner
chicGatorade1
but what if i break up nd dnt end up with sm1 better😔
Stitch_22
I'm sure you'll know who to pick based off of what you already know about this man.
