got a spouse who doesn't support my emotional well being
doesn't respond to my questions
avoids accountability of their actions
Ok, they do it regularly ya sometimes
every. single. day.
Don't worry, u need to accept the Situation and behaviour
are you married?
no, not now
thank you for your support though
Oh sorry, if I not able to understand ur feelings
it's not an issue. I appreciate your support
if u try to explain him , still doesnt change his ways then its not going to go anywhere
u cannot make it work alone
he has to change
marriage is all about having a supportive partner
if it feels like a trap , break free
Though I ain't a professional advisor but just to understand your story would you care to debrief a bit about the ongoing crisis huh?
he was portrayed as a person who doesn't talk much. I'm talkative person. so in a arranged marriage seating I hit it off with him. older than me by 7/8 years. he said yes. and then immediately we got married. the mother son bond is very strong. his family has a strong hold on him. and I'm all for family also. but what happens is that i don't become the priority. I'm not given time. he just wrh and then afterwards immediately watches TV and then immediately it's his phone. totally disengaged from reality, from me. I feel like I'm all alone. the parents are absolutely amazing with me though.
well its about u and your partner
u cant change people
if both r compatible then it can work
strangers forced to form a bond is not easy
truth is not always what we want to hear
if u have to deal with someone , u cant call them yours
its a situation u feel stuck in
Just leave him otherwise you will regret till end of your life
I'm newly married.. can't just walk out of my marriage
ahh husbands are like these only sometimes wives too I know divorce is not possible for you but if you have the opportunity do it otherwise you need to accept the situation. Mostly women with less talktive husbands make friends with the neighbourhood women you can do the same you can have a great bond with other family members too. I think it's an arrange marriage and if your husband is an introvert he needs time to be open with you introverts are like that only.
divorce should only be done if it is effecting your quality of life orelse don't do it. Give him some time he is an introvert he needs some time to be open.