ignore...... believe in yourself🌿🌿🌟🙌🏻

No worries it happens with everyone. The Moms are from that generation where they were raised listening these things from their families. It will take some time for them to change this culture. It's not completely their fault. they belong to those society. You don't worry my friend. You believe in yourself and if possible try to make your mom understand with a soft voice that you are different, everyone is different. Tell her you don't need to follow your cousin. Your cousin is not a freedom fighter of India that you follow him/her. You might have some good qualities but your cousin is not following that quality because she is different. You keep being yourself. All the best

just stay calm and don't listen whatever your mom is saying just believe in yourself and do whatever you want to do 🤞