it will hurt you in long run. You are old school. accept yourself. you can't go with modern defination of love. either you say openly to her or just walk away. forgive and all is just a excuses to hurt yourself.

ask her about him before taking decisions

How did you come to know that she kissed him that time?

she told me herself

As a confession?

yeah as a confession

Did he kiss her or she initiated? I'm sorry if I'm asking too much questions

truth be told I kinda annoyed her at that period of time...but from what she told me..he was the one that went for the kiss

Oh. The guy didn't know she was in relationship with you?

yeah she didn't tell him...and to be honest I love her so much...

It's better you talk with her about it, just be open. But try not to come off as a jealous bf.

okay tanks..u will try to talk to her...I guess it kinda my fault also...I will forgive her...tanks

savage..listen to me

yeah m listening

It's not about forgiveness bro. You might be having doubts in your head. That's gonna affect you a lot, trust me. I've been in your place. And I felt like bashing his head in, I was that much angry. Later when his topics used to come up I used to get upset, and we used to fight. Later I talked with her about it. She said she loves me and is with me, not him so dont think too much about and all. It took me a long time to get used to his topics and all. But even after seperating, i still feel like breaking his head sometimes when i think back.

what exactly is she posting?