My bff and I

Question

My bff and i were together for 9 years , but from the past few weeks she has been talking to her new friends and I feel like shes ignoring me and today she started comparing me and her to her friends,I really feel bad but i don't want to break our friendship because of these reasons but im starting to get uncomfortable and I don't have any one to speak to

bearwiththickhead · Answer

yeah

bearwiththickhead · Answer

i had to let go of my bff after 6 years, it was painful and unbelievable

Xylaraviero · Answer

@bearwiththickhead im so sorry

TB · Answer

9 years is lot of time for a strong friend to develop. In my opinion you must be feeling very sad that she is changing this way , so I think you should try talking to her about this and how you feel by dropping subtle hints or by confronting her directly if that is comfortable for you ,if she really still cares about your friendship she will too be afraid of breaking and will try to resolve it but if she just brushes you off and doesn't pay you much attention and you would get to know that how much importance you still have in her life

TB · Answer

And then if being friends with her hurts your feelings and self respect and it's better to break such friendship. Things will be painful for you because it's not easy to let go of a friend you have for 9 years but it will save from from later getting hurt by a toxic friendship

TB · Answer

the mistakes in the English are due to  autocorrect, I'm sorry😅

vishinair23 · Answer

@bearwiththickhead - same happened to me n that too after 12 long years of friendship and it’s complicated

Frustrating

help me please

difficult tym after breakup