the curse given to asthwathama was in dwapar yug when curses and prayers had 1000 times more strength. Also he was cursed because of his unforgivable sin. in the current yug the strength of prayer has reduced also unless u ask for it with complete determination the prayer won't come true. also in the legends gods stopped blessing ppl with boon of immortality right from time of hiranyakashipu who was slain by narsimha

so u don't need to worry

ok listen dear so what u r going through is a part of OCD ka starting, now OCD is not just regarding cleanliness uske bhi bot types hote hai ok .. like religious, anxiety, fear n a that type ka .. it's like u don't want aisa sab to happen ya think to or for anyone but automatically it comes n u get panicked, andar se u don't want it but dimaag knows aisa sochega to u will be more tensed n fir zabardasti vo thought aata hai which u don't want n then u get panicked

isn't it right?

yes!

this is a part of overthinking n OCD, since past 5 years I have Religious OCD .. it would be good to meet a counsellor or a doc if u can but make sure that doc is good, like reviews dekhke go, if u don't have nearby achcha doc, consult online like for counselling n all that but make sure that doc is good n is genuine doctor n See God know us, God know their kids n they are always with us .. So don't worry .. just keep doing ur work, ur right work n good work n trust God .. God know us dear .. n yeah I would suggest to watch Dr. Deepak Kelkar's video on YouTube

thankyou so much via. but please tell me that is not going to happen. please assure me. this thought is eating me up. i know that is not possible but still i m thinking it constantly. and i aslo have fear of afterlife. fear of eternity. fear of getting trapped forever.

I am better today by God's grace .. Bhagwaan mere saat hai, Meri Maa Kali mere saat hai so today I have no problem .. today I am better only because of God, I understand what u r going through, even I had this issue n thoda stressed hi raha mera cause since 5 years I have this but now I am so so so better than what I was .. God's always with their kids .. just do right n good work n always trust God .. don't worry

When God is with us nothing wrong will happen .. don't worry .. God is always with us

thankyou so much vai. it was really helpful. i m greatful to you. i always want to tell this to somebody but back then i had no idea about such technologies and telling this to people around me always seemed a bad idea to me. i really thank you vai. may you always stay cheerful

I completely understand what u r going through, that thought keeps on pricking on head, u don't want such thought, but it still comes, now the more u try to avoid it the more intense it gets .. I know this, but trust me dear this is a thought, internally u r not thinking na bad for anyone, that is a thought jo apne aap aa raha hai .. God know this .. don't worry .. God is with us nothing wrong can happen

there is no need to fear the afterlife since the soul is never mortal but a state of unconscious energy that passes on. however according to Lord vishnu and our culture's ancient texts nothing is permanent, not even our universe. so u don't need to fear eternity for there isn't any. also have faith in God because he has made us mortal and has created his divine plan for us which has a balance of joy and sorrow. if you've been suffering with this fear, he will surely show u light and free u from this fear.

thankyou amusedhare7 i dealing with all this was so miserable. but now i m reilieved after sharing this here. and i really thankyou forsupporting me and comforting me. you people are great. always stay cheerful.

it's okay dear, it's completely fine, I am glad I could help u at the start itself .. I am actually occupied with my work, ur post notified n then I read it n I felt I should really help you cause even I had this issues before so I understand n it's like u don't even know what's happening n u can't share also, not everyone will understand, even if koi judge bhi nahi karega to bhi they will be like tu jyaada soch mat n all that kinda suggestions u urself don't want to think, but aa raha hai n kya karu n u don't know the terms like OCD ya jo bhi hai to explanation makes more difficult .. I understand what u r going through .. even I got to know I have Religious OCD after 5 years .. I had this issue but never know what n how to explain even to doctor .. now I am able to n I am aware of my problem .. my doc is also very nice n he has helped me with this by prescribing medicines, mine was not jyaada so medicines n all were required, urs is starting stage so counseling will help n medicines hoga bhi agar to bot kam hoga dose nothing to worry

even I was in pain but see now I am so better .. so don't worry .. God is always with us .. Jay Maa Saptashrungi ❤️🙏 .. Jay Maa Kali ❤️🙏

mine was bot* jyaada

it's completely fine to have so scary thoughts but know that u don't need to fear. the Lord has always our best planned. so be happy and don't worry

the big message me correction, mine was bot* jyaada .. galti se not word aaya hai

vaha pe

i don't think its the starting phase. i m dealing with it for last 7 8 years. not just this immortality thing but such wiered thought kept coming to my head. but this was the most painful thing. i think i was always different from others. i was not normal. i used to bielieve wiered things. i even tried to share it with some people but they found it strange and also some of them called me pagal.

See this is thoda sa OCD ka hi scene .. consult a good doc after reasearch, it will help n watch Dr. Deepak Kelkar's video on YouTube

I don't think u are mad for having such different thoughts. we can help u relieve u of these thoughts. so don't be afraid to share

ok vai. i will definitely watch his videos.

thankyou amusedhare7 for getting me. i can not tell you how much relieved i m after talking to you. i will pray for you guys. and don't worry this time i m not going to say any stupid thing.🤣 i will pray for you well being only. thankyou so much.

your* sorry i have this habbit of typing incorrect

haha sure 👍👍

n yeah consult a good doc who is genuine, aaju baaju me nahi to online .. but most importantly koi doc bola shock treatment n all to don't go there, these problems don't need such things, with medicines n counselling it will get better .. shock vaale sab kuch bhi bakwaas rehta hai, u are normal n able to do ur work normally do don't go to aisa koi stupid doctor .. achcha ok, Bye take care .. gtg

see there is no doc aaju baju. right now for some reason i can not go to a doctor. but i will find my way for sure. i will probably go for therapy next year. but medicines pe rely nahi karna chahti. mai chahti hu ki mai naturally cure karu. i have seen my mom taking medicines (she is also dealing with mental issues) and sleeping all day long. mai spirituality me bielieve karti hu aur usi ke through theek hona chahti hu. i will listen to mantra chanting and practice it as well. thanyou so much for help. goodnight!!

is anybody there?

yup

hey i fear immotality so bad. all day i was feeling suffocated. even right now i m crying while typing this. i do all my daily chores while i m crying. i feel so trapped. i sometimes think i m the only one on this earth who fears immortality and that is why i can not tell anybody about this. this is so bad

hey we discussed this earlier as well and scientifically as well as from the point of view of Hinduism it isn't possible. your brain has sustained this fear for so long so it's hard for u to accept. but I suggest u see a psychologist to help to deal with your phobia. a practice that can help u reduce it is to make a prayer of mortality. "god let me be healthy and happy when I live and let me be a normal mortal of this kalyug. once I have reached the end of my time, please free me from this mortal body and take me to the heavens. om" try praying this or something like this and whenever u have such a fear attack pray this and calm yourself.

ok! i will try this. thankyou!

hey anybody there? i m in panic right now. can you guys help?

heyy

I'm here

let's try the prayer friend

you are always there. don't you get irritated?

I've had worse to deal with, so I don't mind. plus if I can help u ill feel better as it helps me heal myself in a way

would you mind sharing your experience?? i mean was it similar to mine?

I haven't had any extreme phobias or fears like you but one of my biggest fear is being all alone. as a kid I've always wanted to have long lasting friendships bit till date I have a total of 6 friends. i had an incident where the whole classroom filled with students had to stand up and give chits of name of their friends in the classroom. the ones whos name had called out were supposed to sit. finally in a class of 50 kids I was the only one standing. so from their my fear grew to the point I got weekly breakdowns for 7yrs. but now I've come to terms with the fact that being alone isn't bad and when required I will surely have help because of my good deeds and gods blessing

i wish you always stay happy and cheerful. you have helped me a lot to cope up with what i have been through. i will always remember you my friend.

thank u friend

hope u find peace as well

hey vai if uh get notification please don't ignore. aapne mujhe kaha tha na ki aapko ocd hai. maine de. kelkar ki videos bhi dekh li but ocd me generally logon ko lagta hai ki unke haath gande hai to dhona hai ya aisa hi kuch. unko cheezein apne hisab se fix karni hoti hai. repeatitive behaviour hota hai. ya god ke baare me bure khayal aate hain. merko aisa kuch to nahi lag raha hai. na hi koi repeatitive behaviour hai aisa. aur god ko leke bure thoughts bhi nahi hain. bas mere mann me ek fear hai ki I wouldn't be able to die as i prayed this. it will come true. aur yahi thought pure din rehta hai. i shared this to my brother and sister. aaj to panic attack bhi aa gaya tha. please can you help

mereko lag raha hai ki sach me ye ho jayega. some times i think that i m just comforting by brain by giving this the name of disorder. basically fooling myself. my mind constantly says ye hl jayega. ye nai hoga na?

my brain*

vaisa kuch nhi hoga i promise. you know what if it bothers you that much you can give your prayer to me.

why are you so good man? and why i would i do this to a person like you?

If it eases you I'm fine with taking this for you

nah nah i won't give it to anybody. it wil create one onw fear in my head. aur is se mereko relief bhi milta mai phir bhi nahi deti

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