i feel like people around me do not respect my boundaries or do not respect me in general especially my mom and dad...when I visit my cousins and they are having their exams in a month my mom would tell me not to disturb them while they are studying even their parents support them but when they come to my house and If i have exams in a month and if i m studying then will compain that I don't talk to them and even my parents would pester me to spend time with them...im very bad at making routines and following them but I'm trying to do it and stick to it this time but my parents won't let me and i don't know how to make them understand and i don't know why is it okay for my cousins to study when they have their exams while we are visiting but not okay for me