My relationship

Question

My relationship is in a verge to break I am having some trust issues i did clear it out with her bt than again i am even overthinking i ruined my relationship before i want to mend it back i am trying everything bt the thing is she has gotten a bit cold ill do anything be  i want her back the way she was 🥺

rkaka · Answer

Have you tried talking to her about the same? Did you tell her about your feelings?

olympus · Answer

i did the thing is i was the one not committing  to her n when i did she is the one who doesnt want to now 🥺

olympus · Answer

she wants to focus on her career

queenpop2 · Answer

Do you trust her.. and if you do.. you should maintain transperancy in relationships because that's for good and if you cannot discuss things with eachother at the comfort level you need to rethink about the whole relationship stuff.

olympus · Answer

yes i do trust her bt now that she has gotten cold i regert my past 🥺

queenpop2 · Answer

Then you need to be abit patient with her now.. do things that'll make her realise she is important to you and is worthy enough

olympus · Answer

any idea what should i do

queenpop2 · Answer

Make her feel good bring the left over spark of your relationship give her time ask her about her career expectations and also try to make sure you support her through the process of her achievement this will give her a feeling that yes you are interested in her growth. And you'll surely see the reflexes

queenpop2 · Answer

Just make sure you decide to grow together emotionally and career wise too. And in all this process don't forget about yourself too give yourself importance too and do things that'll make both you feel good, don't comprise anything. Be productive.

i am an immature person so don't judge me i am mental patient

Frustrating

help me please

how do I change for the better?