My story pls help me

Question

Is like graw up without a father and my Dad  did never look for and even to take care of me, my mom did all this for 17 years, now that he has realized that he has heard I've grew up nicely now that he is after me , wonting me to visit him at his place ,now  my mom too is saying if I do visit him am no more his son . me too I really love my mom but I need a father . What should I do??

Wasiu · Answer

pls I need y help please 🙏🙏🙏

sunshine123 · Answer

hey...

sunshine123 · Answer

there is one thing u can do... that talk to you mother convince her that u love her and u are not going to leave behind her for ur father and visit ur father sometimes

junheeforangel · Answer

forget about the past if it's making you uncomfortable, do what makes you happy now... the thing that you will not regret it in the future

holisticthrush6 · Answer

talk to your mom about it , tell her that you want to meet him atleast once , I guess you'll get your closure once you talk to him , then if the outcome is positive explain your parents that you need both of them

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