Need a small vent to see if I'm the problem, I'll tell everyone the story.

Question

hey I'm a fresh grad, and having trouble telling my parents my feelings due to them basically blowing it off. I try to help them but feel like everything I do is a mistake. plus my memory due to ADHD is horrid and my stepdad basically belittles me about it when I say I forgot something.. so I've been lowering my self worth. I told my mother but she just didn't help very much-

Vickey · Answer

Hey, don't worry, again try to talk with ur mom

adoringpiglet4 · Answer

basically it's small things I placed towels by the door since I forgot to wash them today, and they bunched up by the door and my stepdad got mad, I said I was trying to help. after he tripped on his shoes I thought he was inside though so I set them on the floor near his chair ready for him. I broke down crying because I couldn't do anything right. after that he said it was hot and I messed with the thermostat to cool it down and later it was cold and he was yelling 'who messed with the thermostat?!' I was scared to say it was me but still did so- I have been sitting in my room wondering if I'm the problem?..

adoringpiglet4 · Answer

I do but my mom just gives me a peptalk and it makes me feel worse- I don't know what to do-

adoringpiglet4 · Answer

she said I can do anything but I don't feel like that

Vai · Answer

I think u should seek professional help, make sure u go to a good doctor, like have a cross check of reviews and more info n then go, if u don't have near you, go for online, but going to a right and good doc is very very very important..

Vickey · Answer

Don't think so much, and do ur best to impress both of them

cautiousvenison6 · Answer

in long run u will realize that impressing every one is not good u lose important moments of it life

cautiousvenison6 · Answer

with this condition u have to be careful

adoringpiglet4 · Answer

ty y'all I'll try all that but idk how without getting kicked out of the army- if they see it on my record I'm out-

cautiousvenison6 · Answer

don't be out man

cautiousvenison6 · Answer

don't lose heart

cautiousvenison6 · Answer

man

adoringpiglet4 · Answer

no no they don't want anyone with depression on their record or anything they will kick me out if they see it

cautiousvenison6 · Answer

What record

adoringpiglet4 · Answer

my health record basicly

cautiousvenison6 · Answer

ok

cautiousvenison6 · Answer

I know

cautiousvenison6 · Answer

Ok but still love urself

cautiousvenison6 · Answer

actually u are very tensed

cautiousvenison6 · Answer

I think u are under very pressure

cautiousvenison6 · Answer

u are mentally exhausted

cautiousvenison6 · Answer

stop this

cautiousvenison6 · Answer

or u will lose it happiness

cautiousvenison6 · Answer

stay calm man

Vai · Answer

as I said earlier, seek professional help n ur health is more important that people's societal status .. mental health is equally a matter of concern as physical health is .. seek professional help as I mentioned earlier, and talk n share to someone whom u can trust, it could be ur teacher, ur cousin or ur relative, a friend or neighbour but but but make sure the other person whom u would share is trustworthy and would understand you .. N yeah I would suggest you to watch Dr. Deepak Kelkar's videos on YouTube if you are from India as his videos are in Hindi Language

Venting

how do you get over him?