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My father died 1 year back, my friends didnt care and i lost all my feelings for them and moved away. then i made 2 friends, i trusted them, but both of them now dont care and say that you cry a lot, i feel lonely, in my college and its becoming diffucult and difficult day by day, i have done everything for one of my friend, if she had fever, i had been sitting there whole night, and many things. but today i am all alone, in terrible fever but no one care,or ask anything  in such a big college

nicenlone · Answer

hi !!! i also lost my father last year during 2nd wave of covid. Everything happened  suddenly. We couldn't even grief properly. My mum is still trying to cope up with the enormous grief . But this situation has taught me alot. The most important of it is grief is a very private and a random emotion. u just cant share it with another human. u have to live through it , yield with it and then u have to make a balance with it . I know its very difficult when ur friends don't support u but believe me u have to go through all this alone to come out as stronger wiser and kinder person

needlessgirl · Answer

i have same experience that you having right now my father died 8yrs ago and i'm too much cared and trusted my friends also but when they go..i ask myself why that i cared someone always go.  .then i realize life must go on they have their own lives and also you. .you have to be independent and be grown cause nothing last forever in this world

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