hey! idk why but I am feeling sad too rn

heyy

what's wrong with u

nothing much just saw someone that I used to know and all those memories came rushing in my mind

why are you sad

lmao, we are kinda in same situation

I went to my ex's house yesterday, he's sick

had a really great time, even kissed him on forehead before leaving, met his mom, brother and sister, it was all good

but then again, when we are together he holds Mt Hans tightly, looks at me like he loves me

but when I told him that I can't do this, I need an answer, I love him, I can't be his friend

he Said he doesn't want a relationship, but he behaves like my boyfriend, he does boyfriend stuff

why is he refusing to be in a relationship tho?

idk, he says he is over his ex( my ex and I broke up a year ago, he got another gf after me)

but refuses to be in relationship and don't even tell me why

that's a huge red flag. someone who claims to love you but won't commit isn't trustworthy

and you know I don't want to understand him, I want to Hate him for behaving like this, but I understand him, I was in the same situation w someone, I liked him but didn't want a relationship

I don't get him, at one point he's all over me, he hugs me so tightly, then he behaves like this

I never understood the concept behind loving someone but not willing to commit. that's like ruining your own relationship

what should I do

move on

I can't

I tried for a year, it's been more than a year now lol

I don't want to lose him

just like I did. I was happy after moving on from him but when I saw him today it reminded me of the good times we spent together and how loved he made me feel

with him everything is so good, he is my first love for God's sake

how old are you?

a year is a lot. ask him one last time if he wants a serious relationship or not if he refuses then take it as a closure and leave for your own good

I am 20

how old are you

I'm.17

you know, nowadays everyone wants a physical relationship but with him it was not like that, he never touched me in a wrong way or even talked in that way

his intentions were always so pure and genuine

Yea but that till doesn't explain why he is refusing to be officially together. keep your relationship private but not secret

maybe it's because there are chances that he is going out of city for college

so what? my ex lived in a different country. distance should never be an issue. he is only to study in different city y'all can still do long distance thing

Well, he asked me to come meet him, so should I ask him to meet this time? I mean he is sick that's why I should go I guess?

if he wants your sympathy just say no to his face bit he wants to have a serious conversation then go.

he Has jaundice, so I should probably not talk about all that ig?

same happened with me also I was on your place but one day I said my friend that am I just timepass for you than he said md that no then I said that I just feel like that than he said friends dont talk like this than I said I said I am talking better than you than he said I think now its time to say goodbye for better ness than I just realised that person never loved me he just said that u won't understand even if I say and u r still immature and what I did was best and dint try to contact me and he blocked me from all social media u know what it hurts more when the person u r with u think he loves u but the reality is he cant commit because that person never loved me

I'm sorry that it happened to you, must have hurt alot

even suffering till now

I just wish I should go back and stopmyself for doing friendship with him.