Hey! Has any recent event event happened due to which you’re feeling this way?
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SSS1995
i started doing job after 12, cause of my family financial problms, thats why i wasnt able to do my study good, my sibilngs they did good study from reputated college, now they are earning far better than me, i am who i m coz of my own money, but they took alot from family ,but now everyone looks at me like i did nothing im failure looser, no one will get marry me coz of my education, ghar k kisi bi bade decisions me they never ask my advice. my family thinks i am stupid, my boyfrnd thinks i am hard to love.
SSS1995
i used be postive nature girl, but now its seems like im not postv at all,
SSS1995
and assa ni hota all the time i think abt this only, mood acha hota h to sb acha lgta h... but ek dm se apne app feeling aati h, i should die, then they will understand my importance
M_KSA
Aise feel na kare, apne app ki khush kare, woh cheeze karein jisse apko Khushi milte hai :)
Zoya Ahmad
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Dying won’t be the solution. How would you know?
Focus on the things that you can change.
You can still get yourself enrolled in a open learning programs and get a degree.
You can talk to your family about how you feel.
Why does your patner think you are hard to love? Do you people not express to each other how feel or put in efforts to make each other feel special.
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i already discusse with my family but seems like they are not taking this seriously, its been two mai thak chuki hu uhne smjha k mujhe bura lgta h.. but they are like choti choti argument me they give tont about my earning about my job, my father is like ,tere liye ladka nhi milega tu MA karle ya kuch bi krle, teri bhen ko aram se mil jyega she is earning good,
and my boyfriend is like, tumhara humesha ka yhi rona hai, u did nothing for me, humesha mai hi krta hu, tum kuch nhi kar paogi, na tumse kuch ho pyega..
Zoya Ahmad
Are you happy with your current job?
Have you tried to tell them that you have been supporting the family from a long time.
And regarding your partner I think you should try to be more assertive, even if you are being weak he should know that you aren’t cribing you are just expressing your emotions.
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SSS1995
i am happy with my job, but my salary is less than my sbilings earning so now i am not able contribute in my family expensses
SSS1995
my partner did a lot for me now he is losing hope in me too..
SSS1995
it been two year i am fighting with these negative thoughts...
SSS1995
now i feel like i cant bear it any more
Zoya Ahmad
It’s okay, i am glad you are happy with your job.
I am sure he has done a lot for you and you would have done the same for him, that’s why we call it love.
Let’s try to help you cope with these negative thoughts.
Can you jounal your thoughts for straight three days. I mean all the negative thoughts?
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SSS1995
what if someone from my family read it
SSS1995
they will think i mentaly physcly or emotionly weak
Zoya Ahmad
You can write in your phone?
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SSS1995
i can try that
Zoya Ahmad
Great! Do that. Then we can further decide
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nothing is working, my sister again said mar jao, bhut khushi hogi hume, i am feeling so lonely, why dont they understand, i already told them about my condition , why cant they behave little delicately
Zoya Ahmad
I am sorry you have to go through this, may be because they don’t know the severity of your condition.
Try to ignore the begative comment, I know it would be difficult but you don’t have any other option.
What precipitated the argument?
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SSS1995
just silly household things
Zoya Ahmad
Okay, can you try to escape any such situation?
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SSS1995
i am living with them, sometime even they positive things, mujhe vo bi negative lagti h,
Zoya Ahmad
I can understand, I meant escaping from the situation.
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i tried, but they again started it, they are saying i am not in depression i just need attention , vo thak chuke h mujhse, sometimes i feel like i dont wana die but this is the best i can do, so everyone will in peace after that.. or just become inviaible i dont have to face them, why they are doing this to me.