Have you tried telling them how you feel?
Be assertive of what you expect.
fondViper7
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We are in the same boat, but if there is a chance or time tell them what you feel for you to let go of that feeling.
crushedLeopard1
I told them but they felt bad and got angry
fondViper7
1
Well in that, I think you need to start to avoid that kind of people because they do not know your worth.
crushedLeopard1
Most of them are my friends and siblings
fondViper7
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In that case instead of avoiding them show them that they should not treat you that way. That you are not a robot to not feel hurt when they treat or see you as a tool.
babygirl99
4
Cut them out of your life , human interaction should be clear and thoughtful ! If they only use you then they don't deserve to be in your life and if you can't cut them from your life lower your expectations
crushedLeopard1
I did show them that I am not a tool. But they still do what they want to do. Yeah babygirl99 maybe I need to lower my expectation from them. Thank you fondViper7 and babygirl99. This made me a little bit better.