Actually I am still young and I really don't know but I have really weird emotions like I have become really emotional and I start to cry whenever a certain topic is brought up
Samairah
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Well that’s good being emotional, however if you know the topic then you can avoid it
mildBagels2
No I can't avoid it because the topic is about my career
mildBagels2
Actually my parents don't support my dreams and I don't know if I should just give up on my dreams and choose what my parents want
Samairah
1
Well what do you want to be ? See if your passionate about it then you should talk to your parents and explain them on why is it important for you. I am sure it can work out, you just have to be persistent 😊
mildBagels2
And it's really hard fOr me to give up on my dreams
mildBagels2
I feel like 😖😫😰😢😭😭
mildBagels2
So please help me
mildBagels2
Do do the right thing
Samairah
1
Well then explain them and keep trying. Don’t give up
Samairah
1
You have to sit down with them and tell them. Ultimately it’s your career and you have to live with the choice you make.
mildBagels2
I keep trying but then they say things like you are going destroy the reputation of our family and that you should atleast do something for us we spend so much money on you to give you higher education and you are just taking it as granted and also that you father wants you to be doctor you are going to fulfill his dreams right after hearing those things I just feel pathetic
Samairah
Well it’s wrong, fundamentally it’s your life and you have to live with the choice. You should do what your good at and tell them that if your not interested in being a doctor then you will never be a good one all your life, which is even worse. I hope they understand as it will not be a healthy situation for both of you
mildBagels2
I don't even have anyone I could talk to freely . I just feel my emotions are going to make me burst
mildBagels2
Whenever my relatives call I feel like crying because they always ask me about my career
mildBagels2
As my family is Indian they really don't support my career
mildBagels2
As I teen I feel like my life is just going to crash
Samairah
Don’t feel like that. You have got to be strong. Is there anyone in your family who is going to support you?
mildBagels2
No I don't think anyone will support me
mildBagels2
And also I feel that i can't give up on my dreams and just become a doctor because I would have to do that my whole life
Samairah
Which course do you want to do in the first place?
