Marriage is a choice, it's okay if you are not willing to settle for any less than what you've imagined.
R_anjum
Well give yourself time thats all I would say
aaa7194
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First of all mam you need to change your mindset...what is this weak men and can't provide you bare minimum....aren't you supposed to be able to earn your bread ....and plz don't bring religion in between to justify your silly and pity mindsets and idea...
aloofTortoise8
I said weak out of frustration. The men who propose always specifically want a wife who"ll look after his parents. But they dont know the basics of a marriage and what it includes. For example the most recent proposal was from a boy who forcefully asked me to say that ill live with his mom in a small town while he looks for work in the city im currently living in. When i said i cant, he asked me to say ill live in a box or a single room with bread n water with him to prove my loyalty as a future wife. I said i cant say that, im sorry. Mans went crazy. I might be wrong here but all in all im really frustrated and upset cz im tired of parading infront of potential MILs
aloofTortoise8
Also, religion is the core of my existence. Im sorry you dont understand that some people choose religion over everything else. And according to my religion, earning and providing is the mans job. Looking after him and his children is the womans job. I prefer that in every way. Its a matter of choice. You dont have to say im petty.