Obsessed, lonely, depressed. plz be kind.

Question

It's been months since I've been trying to forget someon who I wanted to be friends with but the feeling wasn't mutual.  I'm really depressed and I do keep myself busy but the feeling is still there because I'm lonely and I don't have anyone to really connect with or talk to. Pretty sure if I was able to was able to make friends  Moving on would be easier, Also suffer from obsessive tendencies so moving on is that much harder. I would appreciate any consolation alsoIf anyone here is there thirties wants to be friends then add me.

snufyfan · Answer

Hi. I'm not thirty but, I think you are right. if you had friends, things would have been easier. I'm going through something similar. You can try Bumble BFF if you can have access to it for making friends or even to just talk.. and if not, try picking up on hobbies that can help you calm and find peace in what it is. I know it is easier said than done but I am trying really hard, and I think we can do it. you are not alone. Cheers!

offendedmoth3 · Answer

Maybe you can try making friends with people who wanna be friends with you. You'd be surprised how well you get along with someone in their twenties or Forties or even older. My guess for this preference would be a fear of incompatibility. So put some differences aside and you will be sure to make friends. Seeing as you have a problem with attachments, I think it'd be best to keep a small circle of friends instead of just one. It won't really make the problem go away but you'll definitely be able to see that you can have options and when they start acting you have someone else to lean on

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