please I really need help and you suggestions it was a seven years five months relation ship but it was toxic for me
yaashi
it gave me happiness but at times I have cried a lot for that
empathicorange3
I have been through such one
empathicorange3
But since I have been crying more than being happy
empathicorange3
I just knew it earlier that I had to let go of it even if it's hard. I had the most hard and depressed time after I let go of that person.
empathicorange3
And I always remembered bits and pieces of that person's memories every day and cried so much.
empathicorange3
But you will feel better. Trust me. I did feel so stressed and depressed after letting go. But as time passes and when you try to snap out of it you will come to your normal self.
empathicorange3
And if you feel that you let go of that person and you feel guilty then remember how hard you tried to stay In such a toxic relationship. Your efforts to a person who didn't even care and who made you cry most of the time keeping aside the happy moments.
blissinchaos
hey yaashi. I understand you're having a really hard time b/c 7 years is looong time and moving on from such a relationship is hard. if u wanna get out of it then be clear and confident about it and talk it out w your partner. but if they are apologizing for their mistake then consider it. it also depends on the intensity of the mistake as well as their apology and most importantly their will to change.
yaashi
I'm confident about my decision of letting him go but then why i feel guilty and regret
empathicorange3
It happens. It did for me. Because when you try to leave a person you remember the memories you had with them.
empathicorange3
I was confident with my decision and no matter what happened I was ready to face it because I couldn't bare it anymore.
yaashi
i wish i could have memory loss of that period i spent with him
empathicorange3
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I know hehe it's exactly what I asked when I going through it. But we should be strong now.
yaashi
did you moved on from your partner in a way you loved someone else?
empathicorange3
I am moving on still. And I feel better now than before
yaashi
oky
empathicorange3
Ya. It's time you go for a better life now. So take care. You can do this.
yaashi
yess thank you
empathicorange3
I didn't know what all I lost when I was in a relationship with him. I lost my freedom, self esteem, value, my happiness, my health and my love. And things I got in bonus are depression, stress anxiety related health issues, lack of sleep. Which is why I really don't want you to suffer anymore. Take care yaashi. Have a good life ahead.
yaashi
you won't believe this is all i got
yaashi
I'm facing it, just need to get out from it
empathicorange3
Ya and the only way is to let go of it. Even if it hurts you will be glad later that you did yaashi.
yaashi
yaa
empathicorange3
You need a person who makes you happy yaashi not a person who treats you by their mood. Love should be something which brings happiness into your life and not the other way. This is not love to us it is just in the name of love we are going through torture.
empathicorange3
If it's hard for you later just remember for what reasons you let go of him and that you were right to be freed from it rather than be caged.
empathicorange3
I am elaborating it this much because I don't want to see another person suffering like me . Take care. Get yourself to speak up.
yaashi
my days are passing by crying my Nights are passing by crying I don't know I have got two times anxiety attack I'm suffering a lot I really really need to get out of this I don't want him back in my life but I can't stop loving him that's my problem
