one sided attraction

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I like a girl from a very long time(1 year) and during our initial days of talking she also liked me but now she doesnt seem interested and im afraid if she has someone esle in her life and nowadays im regularly stalking her :(((..i just want to forget her completely but its too hard for me

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Anonymoussss
i have the fear of losing her
Anonymoussss
and now its affecting my mental heath
Zoya Ahmad
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Hey! Have you tried talking to that person on a clear note that what are her thoughts How you feel and how it has been effecting you. If you cannot do this then try to distance yourself completely. It will hurt initially but you will get out of it like this only. Acknowledge the emotion and try to move on. Focus on other productive things in life. Do you have any hobby? What do you do?
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I can't tell her because that will ruin our friendship Once i asked her out about if she has someone else but she thought i was trying to control her So i fear saying or asking anything And honestly i don't have any hobby ;( I'm free most of the times doing nothing It's my last year of college
Zoya Ahmad
What about further studies? Career? Do you have a plan for that. If you won’t say you will always be in the state of anxiousness. Try to make her understand that you’re not forcing anything on her you’re just expressing how you feel.
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