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Relationship Issues

Hi everyone, I am new here.So I used to have a crush on this guy like 2 years ago when I was in school but because of lockdown school has been closed till now.So few days back he texted me asking me about how I am...and we talked a lot in these few days but the thing I didn't notice was that he was replying late to me even If he was online.He had left me on seen many times and me being a ass just kept texting him.Today is his birthday and I didn't wish him because he left me on seen like 2 days ago and hasn't texted till now.I don't if I still like him or not but it hurts you know...and the way I am acting it actually feels like that I still like him.I don't know what to do this thing is eating me inside and I can't focus on anything rather then him.What should I do?How can I stop liking him?I don't wanna like him but still I do. I know you must be thinking this is such a silly problem but I have got noone to talk so please don't judge.

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6 Answers

ferventFlamingo1

I don't think this is silly , I can relate you, my gf gets angry when I late reply I thought silly at time later on I realised , the truth is you love him so much ! You can't get angry for some random boy not replying fast ,you love him ! Just say to him , late reply makes you angry he will understand ! Don't just give up your love foe late reply ,life is more than you think

grizzledCoati1

There is nothing wrong with the way you feel. After all we can never really decide who we fall for and till what extent we do. I know you must be feeling so confused and anxious about everything you do. But right now I want you to focus on the things YOU like. Now of course you'll say you like that boy and that's what you're doing. But before you liked that boy maybe there were things like your favourite song, or your favourite movie. Watch that. Spend your days doing thinks you liked to do or like to do excluding thinking about the boy. Then when you'll finally be okay you'll be able to think about something else. Take one day as one day. Make your bed go out talk to new people. I hope this helps!! Take care

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rkaka

I think you shouldn't keep any grudge for the day and just wish him. You can tell him later how you felt about this situation.

I wished him and he actually replied...and the way he replied seemed happy to me.

eagerCheese7

You know what just tell him what you feel about him ...yeah I agree this is not a silly problem I faced it too ...but open up yourself to him is a thing lead you to know what he feels about you... Whatever happens let it happened but atleast you will know what he thinks about you and you can move on

Unloving

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