Hi Disneynn123! Unrequited love is very painful. To feel love for someone who doesn't feel the same way can hurt deeply. Please give yourself time to heal. It may also help to give him the same. Just as you feel this pain so does he, except for someone else. Both of you need time and space to work things out. I also ge the sense that even though he did not feel the same way for you, you valued the firendship. But it may help to think about what in that friendship made you want to hold on? Could it be that you were holding on because you hoped that he would change his mind and feel differently? It may seem like this is the end of your friendship. But give it time. Take this time to invest in yourself. Try to define and focus on your goals. Also use this time to build up your self worth. Maybe once you both have healed from this hurt and feel better about yourselves, you may get back to being friends and actually help each other grow. Right now you may only be limiting and hurting yourself and him by latching on to something.

yes ma'am,i am really thankful for your response..ma'am sometimes he talks to me like we are really made for each other and sometimes his talks,behaviour and ignorance seems like we never know each other...we had communicated before and he told me not to waste time with him..and told me that he often gets irritated with my behaviour..but what about our friendship?sometimes thoughts like breaking the friendship comes in my mind but innerly something always stops me from doing that.... and i am too much addicted with him and can not able to separate myself from him and his thoughts. so please tell me how to motivate myself to build a good gap or separation which will be helpful for both of us

It's never easy to separate ourselves from someone we are close to. Even if that relationship is only hurting us. If I may ask, is there still a hope that he may return your feelings?

ma'am, i think he is actually not interested and he does not want to build any kind of relationship between us......and he is not responding my calls and texts for about 7 days..so ma'am i think there is no hope for any return of my feelings... .

would you please like to suggest me what to do now and how to convience myself

Breakups are hard. So firstly, give yourself time. Please know that it will hurt for a while. But the pain will go. Give yourself that time. You can't rush this healing. Please take this time to focus on yourself. Build your confidence and exercise self compassion as you move towards your goals. We often latch onto people.in an unhealthy manner of we don't feel too good about ourselves. If I may ask, how do you feel about yourself. Would you say that you are largely confident and like the person you are?

yes ma'am, i like myself but i need some improvement in some of my quality...now i am alright but sometimes i get imbalanced mentally due to overthinking.....now i am trying to control and to make some space between us..but i do not know what will be the result...i just want some peace