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Going through a break up. Just bought a 3bedroom house 6 months ago. Ny myself and everything reminds me of her

Dumitri76

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rkaka
Sorry to hear this, wht happened ?
Zoya Ahmad
Hey! Thanks for reaching out. I am sure it must really difficult for you. Are you trying accept this change in your life?
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Dumitri76
Almost 3yrs. in and she wouldnt call me text me. come home drunk after having drinks after work with coworkers. i proposed to her on Juliet's balcony in Verona. She said that she wanted a family and children. we did a few relationship sessions and our therapist said that we both needed help and not to drink. She kept drinking and her work called me and said that she didnt come into work, well she got caught drinking and driving. This was less than a week after she left
rkaka
drinking is the only problem right? Did you try convincing her to comeback?
Zoya Ahmad
I see, It must have been difficult for you. Were you guys trying to manage her dependence?
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Dumitri76
Yes. i tried she wont answer my calls or texts. Shes a modern, independent woman that loves attention. I just tried to keep it simple. Im older but thats what she said that she loved about me? She told me before she left that she didnt fall in love with me,,, she fell in love with the idea of me and our future together witch really hurt me
Zoya Ahmad
I see, I am sure you must be getting flashbacks.
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Zoya Ahmad
I am sure you are very attached to her and hurting a lot right now but would you really want to be with a person who liked the idea of you? Not who you are as a person.
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Dumitri76
Yes. I started drinking and im slowly killing myself. Before she came along i was single for 11 yrs. After my girl passed away from a car accident. 2016 i lost my father and my son got in an accident and he can't walk or talk anymore. What a great life
Zoya Ahmad
I am sorry to hear that, it’s truly devastating. But slowly killing yourself isn’t a solution, rather we can try to help you outgrow this feeling and look forward to a more rational positive perspective towards life.
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Sunshineme
dumitri don't be upset. I know your going through tough times. but distract yourself. and dont do things u used to do withher
Dumitri76
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do you know what it feels like to raise a child until hes 18 and to look in his eyes and see that he just wants to go? Or a person you made dinner for is never coming back. Or a father that went on vacation and never came back?????
Zoya Ahmad
I can only imagine the trauma and hurt you must be feeling right now. This must be really devastating.
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