how do I do that

they do but the only problem is that they don't do that with many ppl

I find it hard to make friends

@decimaltruffle the truth is.. it is hard to make friends for all... not just you but almost every other person finds it difficult to make friends.. I tell you why.. there are knowns whom me know.. talk about a bit.. maybe daily, weekly, once in a while.. but then there are friends, who don't just know you as a person but they know you as a soul.. they care about you.. they talk about you n your life.. your behavior, your happiness, your sadness, and most of all, YOU matters to them. so networking is easy.. but making friends is difficult.. it's not like buying something.. it a process.. it needs time.. it needs two people who are willing to be friends.. and coming to your situation, if you know that your friends don't hang out on their own or with anyone else, so dont need to be bothered about it. its their nature.. but if you feel they do this only with you, then distance yourself from them.. it's better to stay alone and be friend with your own self rather than be with someone who doesn't care about you. go out..meet people. you'll make friends eventually..

they do it with people they tell me they don't like

we've been through Alot