Please help me

Question

He is toxic for me but i am not able to go away from him.. we had sex and i belong to a traditional family and i really want to know.. how people heal even after they had sex. he disrespect me a lot and for that i am becoming violent towards me and towards him too... i hate myself for. having sex and i hate myself for loving him above everything.. but if he don't live by my side I try to hurt myself and every memory of him haunt me🥺 like how I'll go there and do there please help me. I want to overcome everything.. i am screaming weeping hurting.. i was never like that

alertchile0 · Answer

It's ok. Nothing is now going to change. Whatever happened, happened. Even if you are from traditional family it's ok. But first you need to believe that it's ok, you did it by choice and wanted to do it...it's nothing horrible

alertchile0 · Answer

By reading this, I feel like you are having so much trouble because you had sex with him and now you regret because you believe it's not a right thing.

alertchile0 · Answer

And if you want to move on, cut out all the expectation you have from him or from this relationship. Clearly you see that this is not what you want for the rest of your life. Breaking up should be the choice.

boastfulshads7 · Answer

@alertchile0 i truly didn't want sex i did because he said he'll marry afterwards.. but just after sex he started disrespecting me

alertchile0 · Answer

Ok but your approval was there or not?

boastfulshads7 · Answer

@alertchile0 there was my approval 🥺 that's what I am regretting for

VoodoSaint · Answer

you should stop. in a smart steps

Frustrating

help me please

how do I change for the better?