what kind of advise are u looking for neha?

don't mind what your teachers say prove them wrong and score great in next exam

these are normal high school drama which happens with all batches.... this is normal, don't overthink it and ruin ur mood, be focused for ur upcoming tests and prove them wrong, yeah?

Few years later, you'll recall these incidents and have a good laugh, don't mind them, and focus on your next test and give your best in it instead.

don't take it seriously ... hmare bhi yhi haak the teachers k sath fltu ki bkws krte the teachers or hum seriously lelete the tbh 10th 9th m ajh 5 saal hogye abh unn baaton pr haasi ati h soch kr bhi

but because of this she is even deducting my marks, like i one answer my friend got 3 while I got 1, and our answers were also same but then also

did u consult ur teacher abt this?

she doesn't listen, cause she is the most dangerous teacher of our school and students don't even dare to look into her eyes

well then ignore her, just focus on ur boards and tests, don't give her any other chance to treat u like that.

hmm

Better to not think too much about it, as there's nothing much you can do about it. You already said she is unapproachable, so don't worry about it and focus on your studies. These kind of things happen during teenage years but they'll hardly matter a few years down the line

just ignore them . something like this happened with me too my teacher saw me with my bf outside school and i got scared and just ran away next day she made fun of him his looks and everything as he was not from our school. she called me and made me feel like i am lowering my self esteem loving him. the things got cold in few days. but then i moved to 11th standard with all new faculty and particular stream after securing scholarship for whole year. so oit of no where the new faculty head started asking me about my boyfriend which she would have never known. i just got too much frustrated and told her... jinhone ye apke kano me bat dali unhe bhi jakr boldena ki unki bhi beti h aur uski dignity ko mai khrb krne pr ayi to she will keep hiding her face. ( ik all of you will think how can i be like this) but i had some perks of being a scholar by then. i never promoted wrong things. so speak up girl... just speak up and tell her you have no right to interfere in my life

but this will deduct my marks send by school in the boards

it will not, believe it or not marks are actually sent by ur principal, not subject teachers. which is mostly finalized by ur practicals and semester. which board are u in?

its just one exam jhst score your best in next exam and if you feel your marks are being deducted unnecessarily consult some same subject teachers. and if they say you deserve marks and your teacher is deducting them unnecessarily just reach out to your principal if needed take your parents too

Grades are not a measure of your success. If you think she is being unfair, which she evidently is, muster the courage to politely confront her. Show her that you're serious about your academics, contrary to the opinion the faculty has formed among themselves. But you also need to remember that grades do not define you, your future, or your success

your board marks are sent by your coordinator and not the particular subject teachers. schools generally have some rules according to your sincerity and image they give you marks not under some limit

hmm

@excitedtomatoe7 i partially agree with you. nowadays marks matter a lot.. but if you are solving a question and getting a right answer from different method ... your teacher can't deduct your marks... make sure your answers are correct

i was scholar (not bragging) so even the external teachers during practicals gave me full marks. schools also need fame and they get it from good results. so they won't do anything wrong don't worry

@its_ _ me- That's why I have asked her to talk to her teacher if it makes her feel better. But it is also important for us to educate young minds on not stressing themselves out for grades. So many teens here stressed out for studies, because they fear they cannot make it in life, which is not supposed to be the notion or a cause of stress to teenagers

see ik i understand this but its not Fully applicable... you and everybody knows the competition out there... she must do hardwork and try her best... thats what i want

I was a gold medalist in my university but I can affirm that even mediocre students of my batch are doing impressively well out there. Also, I've been teaching students myself for a while now. While I always encourage them to be the best and to challenge themselves each time, I understand the pressure they're under and let them know that lower marks do not lessen their worth. The motive is to keep up the good spirit while they continue to outdo themselves each time over

well how much we score in 10th Or 12th definitely doesn't matter much.... but getting into a reputated uni and developing skills are what will actually decide direction of her life.

yeah thats a point too... i agree with these guys.... you shouldn't worry much about scores right now

Just work hard and try to outdo yourself each time... But don't stress yourself out for grades, because a few years down the line, a few years into corporate world, you realise that nobody cares how much you scored in school or college. The competition is definitely higher but not just for grades. There are more important aspects in the corporate world, both national as well as international. So get rid of all the stress, work hard, but also don't forget to enjoy the youthful years of your life

every single school teacher is like that. even I had those kind of teachers back in my school. dw they will keep saying that but it's u who has to prove that ur relationship isn't at all hindering your academics. and if you're going out try to wear a mask or something so that they won't recognise u hehe.

@blissinchaos i was wearing mask that time and was also wearing glasses

wow that means ur teacher has a good eye but u can also try wearing a stole(scarf) like a full hijab. that's what I did and still do

@blissainchaos but I only went for one time and will not go again