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hi all, can someone please help by letting me know what should I do in the below condition - So yesterday one of my previous company friend came to my city and asked me to meet him tiday for 2-3 hours before he goes back to his town today only...so the thing is I never actually met any one like this before...I meant that I am very shy and introvert kind of person due to which I always struggled to gel with other groups be it in school or college or even office... although I had few friends who didn't judged me in college time and in office, so I actually got to know how friends are in office life only ..and I know for others, staying at their friends house and wandering with them for hours is a normal thing but for me it's null only...I really don't know what to talk when I meet him today ..I am continuously thinking what should I talk to him so he don't get bored for those 2-3 hours.... he had many childhood friends in his town so I know he stays at their friends house ...continued

cynicalthrush8 · Answer

..... and he goes to meet them everyday in evening in his town...so I am really nervous on how to keep him not-bored for those 2-3 hours....I literally don't know what to communicate or do in these situations.... can someone please help

perceus12galactus · Answer

I think if he has called you...he gonna keep mostly the conversation Rolling but you just need to reciprocate and add some lines of your experience related to the topic which he might be talking about  after he takes a pause on each topic

perceus12galactus · Answer

I am an introvert...I personally do this.....

cynicalthrush8 · Answer

hmm... thanks for sharing your thoughts... it's just I am having one continuous thought if he gets bored, then also fine .. from next time, he will not call me by himself...and I know this thought is not right but my mind keeps me forcing... maybe as a mechanism to slow down nervous that what can happen worst to worst..he gets bored so next time things will be sorted

perceus12galactus · Answer

don't worry..be busy with ur work cuz overthinking of a future possibility related to reaction of another person hasn't helped anybody for real....so be cool!!

cynicalthrush8 · Answer

maybe you are correct....I am thinking to go little late so that in place of 2-3 hours, I can get only 1 hour...what do you suggest

Vai · Answer

here in this post u could talk about ur things easily because u were cool n calm, same goes there, just be calm n be casual just as much as the other person is, don't take it as a very big task n bother yourself, just be yourself n normal, u will be fine while talking then

perceus12galactus · Answer

I think that would land a bad impression but it's upto you

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