please read it suggest me what should i do

Question

i m from india i always wanted to become a doctor so after my 12th i dropped and took coaching bt cudnt crack the exam so took another drop and prepared bt still failed and after that my mom fell severly ill so i couldnt ask her to admit me in good college so that year i just sat for the exam bt didnt really feel to crack ... and year after i finally took admission in bsc bt i was very disappointed after back to back failure and i feel i m not worth of becoming a succesful person .. i feel so down and each day i just battle to survive i m fed up of this kind of life all my friends are in good fields ahead of me .. and i m left behind .. i feel like a crap.. nothing excites me now i never thought i would end up like this my dreams shattered .. all doors closed..

brainyMeerkat1 · Answer

Hey..  you can't say all doors are closed.   Still many things to do in life.    Truth is actually we don't know what to do in life  , we are always confused but   God is not confused he knows what you have to do.   Don't feel disappointed there are many good opportunities after graduation, you never know   what future will bring to you......

swagata · Answer

thanks for this💟

MDP · Answer

Hello friend. Your doors are not closed. You can try preparing for your medical exam with BSC. One of my friend's sister had some issue for which she joined BSC. In the 2nd year of her graduation she cracked medical exam. I just want to say, your doors are not closed. You might be thinking your friends got ahead. Everyone has a different journey. please focus on your journey. we make our life hell once we start comparing ourselves with others. It doesn't matter you are behind someone or someone is ahead of you. All that matters you are working for your dream or not. You have that hunger to achieve it or not. You are special. Never follow others. You sacrificed an year because of your family issue. Non of your friends has this type of struggle.

MDP · Answer

You are special. You can find your own path and own happiness. All the best my friend.

swagata · Answer

thanks mdp i ll work on it😊

kanthraj19 · Answer

Hey buddy, ex NEET aspirant here. I completely agree with @MDP and @brainyMeerkat1 I have also taken a drop this year but unfortunately I didn't study well. so I feel like it's not my cup of tea, because I lost my interest. initially I thought it's for me, but I am not sure now, because I am forcing myself very hard to study. so now I am very confused to what to do in my life ,as parents relatives neighbours have High Hopes on me. So I am planning to join BSC nursing and to discover my self. so I feel failure gives you important lessons in Life, so take it. Do what you like to do. F societal norms like status, respect from others, be yourself. YOU ARE WHAT YOU ARE. I am no way giving you advise, just sharing my thoughts. I suggest you to watch J Krishnamurthy sir's videos on YouTube. Here's is the video on comparison, if you are interested give it a try https://youtu.be/WJn3QQaDIKg. thank you for listening ❤️😊

swagata · Answer

thanks kantharaj i ll watch it

hello

Frustrating

help me please

how do I change for the better?