Please tell me ur opinion for this

Question

Hello there, So I loved a girl let's name her X for a very long time, it was one sided. So now i am trying to move om from her and focus on myself but sometimes her thoughts peeps into my mind. Few days back I saw a girl in my college(I don't know which department she was) and she looked somewhat same like X, i mean the eyes seems little similar to me, so after seeing her for few days from distance i think i am starting to like her but i am confused if it's my genuine love or it's her resembles that's making me like her. Please give me ur opinion. Thank you

Snowflake002 · Answer

hey

Snowflake002 · Answer

just saw your post

Snowflake002 · Answer

maybe that just kind of a attraction or something like that

zestyhawk40 · Answer

the my question is this genuine attraction?

Snowflake002 · Answer

bcz that girl in your cllg resembles the girl u have once liked... so maybe its just bcz of that... honestly i have had encounter the same when i was in high school... i had a crush on a boy in my neighborhood but due to me being an introvert, couldn't start a convo with him... but later i started liking one of my classmate who resembled the boy i had a crush on...so i think in your case maybe its also just an attraction and it will be gone after sometime

zestyhawk40 · Answer

so this isn't a genuine attraction and i shouldn't think about her much, right?

livingbeing11 · Answer

I think the only reason you started to develop feelings for her was because she looked like X if you wanna be sure about her this new girl then get to know her more maybe then you'll get a clear answer

zestyhawk40 · Answer

how do I know her personally? I don't even know which department she is in

livingbeing11 · Answer

then try to get her social media and then start talking to her

zestyhawk40 · Answer

how will I get that i don't know her name

livingbeing11 · Answer

you gotta think of something and bump into her and just befriend her

zestyhawk40 · Answer

like?

zestyhawk40 · Answer

could you please tell me

livingbeing11 · Answer

now before you do any of this are you completely over X?

zestyhawk40 · Answer

i am trying to move on

zestyhawk40 · Answer

i will not say completely but yes somewhat i have moved on

livingbeing11 · Answer

one thing that I've seen others and experience it myself is that you should never try to get into a relationship if you're not over your last one

livingbeing11 · Answer

so if you're over it great then go for it but if not then focus on your studies or something else and get into a relationship only when you're completely over your ex

zestyhawk40 · Answer

okay I'll keep this in my mind

zestyhawk40 · Answer

thank you for your advice

zestyhawk40 · Answer

but one thing should still try to talk to her?

livingbeing11 · Answer

In my honest opinion you should give it a try

livingbeing11 · Answer

get to know her and you like her then ask yourself this question, ' If X comes back in my life would I still choose her over the new girl?' and if the answer is no then congratulations you're now over X and in a happy relationship with this new girl but if it's no then pls don't get involved with the new girl nobody would want to be in a relationship where the other person would still chose their ex a thousand times over them

zestyhawk40 · Answer

okay thank you

livingbeing11 · Answer

your welcome wish you the best

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