pls guys I

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pls guys I need an advice on dating issue .so I met this guy for like 2 month now we talk and chat so recently he asked me to be his girlfriend but I said no that I wasn't ready to be in a relationship I think he got angry or heartbroken and we stopped talking for like a week ND he called me asking me how I was ND we chatted so my fears right now is that I have notice that when we talk he usually say something like I want to kiss you and am like 🙄🤨 usually speechless but I find it strange I don't know if itz because am new to relationship stuff but does a relationship have to include kissing and all those stuff pls can u guys advice me

jeremiah5 · Answer

Yes couples do that out of love and they feel like doing it. There are people who don't like these things which is totally normal. You're not wrong anywhere.

deep_thinker · Answer

No real ones asks for a kiss even before being in a relationship, i think it's not genuine love.

jeremiah5 · Answer

have you met him in person?

farshy756 · Answer

a relationship doesn't have to necessary include physical touch, no one has the right to force you to do something you are uncomfortable to do.

precious · Answer

yes I have met him like 2 to 3 times

farshy756 · Answer

has he shown any problematic behaviour other than this?

precious · Answer

no he hasn't yet

farshy756 · Answer

do you get uncomfortable near him?

precious · Answer

just when the kissing topic come up

farshy756 · Answer

have you tried telling him that this topic makes you uncomfortable?

precious · Answer

yes when I talk about it to him he stops but the topic might come in again

farshy756 · Answer

you should tell him that you are uncomfortable whenever he does this, but if he keeps on doing this again and again instead of how many times you tell him, you might reconsider talking to him till he actually shows change.

i am an immature person so don't judge me i am mental patient

Frustrating

help me please

how do I change for the better?